just need someone to talk to atm. uni started and i'm busy

>>18707739
I'm in the same boat too. I'm a freshman and this is the first time I actually have to try in school cause I just did the bare minimum in high school and got 70's and 75's. I have a shit ton of work to do and it's stressing me out. I go to a commuter school too, so the opportunity to make friends and just hang out is even less than if I was in another school.

>>18707754
I goto a commuter school and i've been in undergrad for a LONG time.

Honestly make friends with your classmates. Goto club events, take initiative. No one is going to be your friends but you can try to be theirs. Everyone is in the same boat. Some people are willing to be friends, other not so much. I hope you have an enjoyable freshmen year. It's the best time to make friends.

>>18707761
Thanks man. Ill try. Just wondering how the hell do you go up to people (esp. girls) and just start a convo without it being forced and awkward? It sometimes feels like everyone is just constantly putting out "Fuck off" signals when it comes to that stuff

>>18707739
I'm from London and also get the feeling that everyone has a crazy social life at my uni. But university is actually the best place to just put your head down and focus on work without looking like a loser.

>>18707739
>But i'm also stressed and sad that I don't have the time and opportunity to go and and just chill.
Never rest until the journey is over. Take your time when you get to relax during the journey.

>but i see people hanging out with people on the reg and it makes me think, why i don't have a lifestyle like that.
In my observations, those people are brain dead idiots, it might be different for you.

>It feels like I don't really have friends and i'm not really happy with what I'm doing. Not sure how to really cope with this.
Seek guidance, try living a normal life - think the Victorian age. Say, stick to a diet.