How do you not form attachments with people when it's of a more intimate nature? Like how do you distance yourself? I talk to people online and do sexual things over mic, sort of a friends with benefits type deal. But I'm realizing they're all gonna leave one day, get bored of me or find their own significant other. How do I make it not hurt?
>>18706038
Stop thinking that bullshiit. Put it in a perspective that's makes you content with the situation. Then continue thinking that way. It's very simple.
>>18706095
I tend to do it in a depressing way, which probably isn't healthy. "They'd never like me anyway", "I'm not good enough for them", ect
>>18706038
Don't get attached. The more you do it, the less it will hurt.
>>18706695
But how tho