Over the last 4-5 months, every time I got a crush on a guy he was unavailable.
One of them was married, one was leaving for another country, the other was in a very bad mental state and just out of a long term with a psycho.
Why do I keep doing this? How do I stop?
Also - How do I stop taking this kind of rejection so personally?
I feel bad. I feel like the ugliest woman in history.
>>18705596
Dating is luck based. Install tinder and or start going to social events you hate and hit at least one boy per day to speed it up.
>>18705605
I don't like tinder. Tried it, seemed like everyone was on it just for a quick fuck and nothing else.
I have no problem going to social events, but I rarely get interested in anybody.
My problem wasn't "how do I find available guys willing to fuck me", my problem is "why do I keep going for those who are unavailable".
>>18705618
Look at this
>>18705445
High quality men are already married. The too young to be married are already in long term relationships. The sole fact you struggle to be with one of them means you arent as good as you think you are.
Have a nice day and dont lose hope.
>everyone was on it just for quick fuck
You would be surprised. Also there are more apps. Badoo? Meetme? Okcupid?
Use it as a tool to meet people and always ask them what are they looking for before you go on date.
>>18705626
I feel like you aren't even reading my posts. I do not need advice on how to meet men, I never struggled to get dates or anything.
I keep developing feelings for men I can't have. That is my problem.
>>18705646
Ask them if they are single BEFORE you develop feelings for them?
>>18705972
I did know the married guy was married, and still I did get feelings for him. We work together.
The other two were single, but unavailable for other reasons.
>>18705973
To me it looks like you just need to find "the one" and hope you cant love two people at the same time.
>>18705973
You sounds like an average cumdumpster trying to chase Chad. Good luck to you M'lady
>>18705983
None of them were Chads.
Average or below average in terms of looks, pretty broke, not especially good with girls.
The one who was leaving for another country is still virgin at 25.
>>18705983
You are an average /r9k/ bitter virgin manchild who thinks dating works like robot memes.
>>18705605
This.
You can put in the work, but it's pure luck whether you will meet the right match for you.
I dated online a lot over a 5 year period. I had pretty much given up online dating it overall sucked. But last year met a great girl and we are still together.