please give me some sage advice. i didnt really enjoy highschool, already can tell im not so psyched about college, i dont wanna just go through the wringer like my parents did and end up hating life and my spouse. i want to either
1: join the navy
or
2: go to a trade school(automotive/learn to code)
ive had a few relatives go through the navy for a few years and they seem fine.
my dilemma, is that i want to do both desu but which one would be better to do first or second.
please give me some ideas or suggestions, what would you do?
I hated high school was bullied a lot, went to college fucking had an awesome time and slept with a few girl as well as met my current gf(7 year relationship) there, afterwards couldn't find a job bc everyone wanted experience, joined the airforce and loved my first 2 years, had a leadership change and it was fucking miserable for my last 2 years, had 12 people I knew in the force commit suicide bc of shitty leadership and long work hours, if you join the navy make sure you get a good fucking job and not a shitty one like being a cook, either or could suck or be fucking shitty all the luck of the draw, military will pay for college and you can get lucky and be stationed in Korea and Tokyo like I was, or you will he middle of fucking no where with just dudes.