How the fuck do I decide if a girl is being more than nice and polite?
For example, today she said said bye to me at the end of the day despite her easily being able to avoid doing this since I was in the middle of a conversation with another colleague.
And no, I won't ask her directly since we work in the same office.
>>18704179
Ask her if she is single.
Ask her what is she doing this weekend. And then suggest some activity with her.
Flirt with her.
Next time shes polite try talking to her. If she make an effort to keep a conversation going then she probably doesn't think youre a creep.
Honestly "not being a creep" is probably enough to get a coffee date.
>>18704184
Way too direct my dude, and flirting can be very obvious if you're not a subtle guy like me
>>18704188
Ah I see, great idea - don't know how to move from conversation to date though. I might be being a coward, I want to be sure absolutely that she's into me before asking her for coffee
>>18704198
>coward
Cowards dont go on dates with girls. Just saying.
>>18704211
You know, people always talk about this confidence bullshit. No. Women are attracted to COURAGE, not confidence. They know its hard to ask someone out, and therefore slightly brave to do it.
>>18704528
So have you decided to remain virgin or will you ask her out finally?
>>18704528
Good point.
But you got to have some foundaments. If you are courageous but you don't have social acknowledgements and you are mr. nobody, you will come only as mr.nobody with mental illness. This is how women are shallow.
>>18705677
I always liked how in taxi driver travis comes off as initially charming cus of this lol