I have mild Asperger's, unnoticeable most of the time (successfully maintained my cover for 5 years since diagnosed) and I'm alright socially except for some minor difficulties with eye-contact.
However, when confronted with a female of similar age that isn't immediately revolting the issues are compounded. I can't keep eye-contact whatsoever, even with those I would consider friends, and I'm never entirely at-ease when around them.
With friends, acquaintances, celebrities and even fictional characters I am able to make a psychological analysis on some level or another, but when it comes to potential partners I can read them like a book. If that book was written in attic Greek.
Does anybody have any advice on being more comfortable and confident around women, or even on just being able to understand them better?
You can build confidence online, actually. Stop shitposting in here and go get yourself a moderation position. "They do it 4 FREE" jokes aside, you'll be forced to interact with people one way or another. Plus, if the gig is of non-negligible size, you can always tell yourself "Yeah, but I run this shit."
If you have a problem with this it's your problem. Find others like you and make do with them. Rather than wasting your time being fake.