Very good federal job. Through a series of fucked up circumstances, I ended up with a three hour commute, both ways. After doing this for a year, my mind and body have broken down somewhat. 4 kids I never get to spend time with. What do?
Oooh idk... Look for another job? I had to do a bad commute like that for a bit, and it's fucking gay. So find another job or maybe even move closer to that job.
move. make it happen, move closer to your job.