My husband is lying to me about the porn he watches. I checked

People get off on some weird shit, and that's all there is to it.. You honestly shouldn't look through your partner's porn at all. It undermines the mutual respect and trust that a relationship needs to be healthy.

what is ntr

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>>18700719
Well shiii

That's not what I want to hear but I value what you have to say nevertheless.

I guess it's that... I expected better behavior from my partner.

What is NTR? I'm innocent.

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The thread he was looking at

>>>/h/4639452

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>>18700711
You married a closet fag. GG lady.

>>18700738
Better behavior? What are you, a nun? You're the one who went snooping through his shit and trying to catch him in a lie. It's not like he had child porn on his computer, and it's not like you'd be honest if your fetish was embarrassing and might start a fight.

>>18700741
>>18700723
>>18700723
>>18700741
Japanese acronym for Netorare, used to define a genre of Eroge (Hentai Game), meaning "Cuckold."

He might be into the idea of you cheating on him. I wouldn't try it without talking to him about it first, though.

>>18700752
Sometimes I click on porn threads I'm not into for no reason at all except to read the non-image responses.

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>>18700755
Dam

>>18700756
:[ That last point though is a really good one. I don't know what I'd do but I might lie, too. Who knows?

>>18700760
Ty for info and yeah, sometimes I believe that I may be wrong and he is just looking for no reason. But it tears at me to not know.

Things i prefer in porn don't do much for me in live action.
Brain is a weird thing.

>>18700711
maybe if you weren't so vanilla he wouldn't be interested in porn? Maybe a proactive solution is you could tell him you want to do whatever sexual stuff he wants (except cheating) so he wont have any reason to be going to porn. Either that of bitch, moan, and complain and get absolutely no change from him.

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>>18700829
Really harsh and rude, too, but I getcha. He told me something like, "You know all of my fetishes already. Those are what I want you to keep doing."

>>18700797
Oh that's cool. And it is, yeah.

>>18700760
what is hentai

>>18700711
Well, he is your husband. Why do you have the need to look into his browser history? Why do you ask him questions you already know the answers for? Why are you causing him additional stress? Why cant you simply cuddle him after sex session and simply tell him that you know what his favorite porn is? Why not to simply ask him directly?

And the thing about NTR is, he gets off from the degradation, dom/sub factor or simply taboo topic. Fact he is watching something doesnt mean he will ever do it in real life (sort of like watching horror movies VS becoming mass murderer). And even if he did, i bet he would want YOU to cheat HIM, not the other way around.

Tldr simply wait for good moment and them tell him what you know. Hug him and tell him you wont let go until he tells you the truth. Who knows, maybe you two will get off from pretending to be in some sort of NTR scenario.

Also https://yourbrainonporn.com/

>>18700866
>Really harsh and rude
whatever, you wanted uncensored truthful advice from anonymous strangers. Don't get butt-hurt if you don't like what you hear.

>>18700711
How were you able to see what he clicked on if he already deleted his history? ...im asking for a friend

>>18700752
>shitty cringe caption thread
Divorce him and take all his money, he doesn't deserve real sex. You can provide that thread as evidence that he cheated on you and they courts will take your side when they see how much cringe is concentrated in that one web page.

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>>18700891
Wow rlly insightful and helpful. Ty ty ty

>>18700893
I was just being a little rude myself, don't mind me.

>>18700898
It shows up in recently closed tab when you hover over history in the menu on chrome.

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>>18700711
>>18700752
I skimmed the thread and was about to just say to stop whining but after re-reading thread I see it's Reverse NTR where the GUY is getting stolen by another GIRL

I don't actually blame you for being concerned about that. Do confront him about it. For your situation that's actually some pretty dangerously relatable shit. It's one thing to fap to other girls but it's another to fap to girls who are getting fucked under the pretext of them homewrecking.

If you explain it like that to him it should be pretty easy to see where you're coming from. DO mention that you know he entered it about seven times too.

>married 2.5 years
>goes through husband's porn and history out of insecurity and basically breaks every notion of trust or intimacy
>finds that husband has unusual fetish
>"he surely wants to cheat on me"
If you are for real then I'm sorry for the guy. He doesn't deserve a controlling woman like you.

>>18700752
I don't even read the text on the images when I fap. Same goes for every other thread, if the drawing turns me on I don't care about the story / context.
You insecure female dog.

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The porn he watches has nothing to do with what he wants irl. For example I'm a grill who likes watching other women get degraded, so on occasion I watch maledom porn. I wouldn't want that done to me though, I just like watching other women be whores and throw their lives and honor away, and what I'm into irl is the complete opposite of that. So most likely your husband doesn't want to cuck you, he just likes watching other people be degenerate.

>>18700711
Divorce him, any twat too stupid to use incognito browser isn't worth the trouble.

>>18700711
I have that shirt

>>18700711
Porn is not real life. It's entertainment, it's just images on a screen. I've looked at plenty of things that I wouldn't actually want to try in real life. Would you assume he wants to murder people if you caught him watching "Game of Thrones" or "Dexter?" It's pretty much the same idea.

>The marriage is great besides this. Two and a half years.
That's all you really need to worry about. Porn CAN be a problem in relationships, it can become a very unhealthy/addictive sort of habit, but it doesn't sound like that's the case here. If you start having problems in your sex life, that's when you should worry about this.

For now, though, understand that ALL men look at weird shit on the Internet. Why? Because it's there, and all you have to do is click a few buttons.

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Is it safe to say that if you know what NTR is, you have an actual problem?

You LET your SO watch porn to masturbate to while you're at home. That's so laughable. I only let ny bf do that when I'm at work. If I'm home, I'll hop right on his dick to show him I'm much better than his porn. You should be more giving to him if he's openly watching porn when your at home. Guys much prefer real sex than masterbation. Its no wonder he looks at NTR. However I did think he should be more honest about his porn selections. I try to be as open as I can with my bf about stuff he says he's into and try everything at lest once.

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>>18702029
You're really seeing it the same way I do. I just already have confronted him and he told me it was him randomly clicking the top of the board.

>>18702138
It's just how I feel.

>>18702149
Okay cool ty he said that too maybe it's the truth idek

>>18703028
Interesting persepctive

>>18703054
Ahhhh how neat for you

>>18703074
You've been really insightful and helpful. You made me feel better ty fs

>>18703078
Maybe that's what I'm really upset about here lol

>>18703087
you're

>>18703518
Op, I get off on the idea of going across the country impregnating as many women as I an and spreading my seed.

But I'm not gonna do that because it's dumb, and I don't want to bring a kid into this world without a father. Your husband probably doesn't actually want to fuck a girl in front of you, he just likes the idea. Hell I like the idea of doing that in front of my girlfriend, but I'd never do it because I love her and it would ruin our relationship. That and chances are it wouldn't even be that nice.

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Was just talking to him about this after I had a thought.

Back in my early twenties I knew a middle aged woman that I was close to. I wouldn't call her a motherly figure. She was too petite and had MS so she was breaking down.

She told me and we talked about at length about an issue of hers. Her husband had rape fetishes.

So you can maybe see where I want to have a strict control over what my spouse looks at. Armed with that knowledge I feel more capable of recognizing that it is largely a personal problem I have and not one he has. It was also thanks to a lot of you that told me what porn you look at does not dictate what you want to do. Thanks for that /adv/

>>18703518
The early 00's were fucking times..