Why can't I just love my girlfriend? She's been the only girl to not treat me like shit and she's been extremely reliable. Yet I do not get the butterflies at all like from previous girls. She's a little below my standards physically, but I'm amazing either.
I enjoy being around her, my life is better with her for sure, but I still keep feeling like something is missing.
I know I go after damaged women. Ever woman I've known has been crazy so I just started to go after that I guess.
I'm really trying to force myself to love her, cause my life will be much more stable, but I keep feeling empty and shit.
I imagine this is just an issue on my end, but I don't know how to fix it. I'm afraid one day I'm going to leave her high and dry and that's not fair to her.
Speaking from my experience one cannot force love. It either happens or does not. The girls I loved didn't want me, and the only one that loved me I didn't love.
FML.
It is because she is below your standards physically.
Never settle just because she has a good personality, you have to be content with everything or it wont work out in the long run.
Life is about balance, you need a balance of looks and personality in your partner or it will never work out.
I would say do not have a relationship with her but instead become friends, this would be one of those time where you friend zone a girl.
I've dated some crazy chicks, the sex was good and there was some entertaining banter but it gets old after a while. What did your ex girls have to offer that your new girl doesn't have? There has to be some explanation as to why you had butterflies with them and not with your current gf
>>18700289
He already said its her looks.
>She's a little below my standards physically.
He is basically settling because she treats him nice.
just dump her. the sooner, the better. she deserves someone who can love her as is and you need someone to fulfill the personality and looks needs
>>18699943
Describe yourself honestly... maybe she loves you despite your glaring flaws.
>She's a little below my standards physically
Pack your bags, that is all.