Kind of a peculiar question: how do I start having sex at a later

1: Forget everything you thought you knew about sex, because clearly that stuff is trash. You need to start with a clean slate, not failed assumptions.

2: Work on your conversational skills every single day except the sabbath which is for rest and church. You need salesmanship, you need information sorting, you need the conversational nimbleness to dodge all the shit people fling at you without spilling a drop of your own side. Basically just talk to as many different people as possible. People WILL fling shitty words at you, especially in the dating world. How you respond determines who you are in their mind.

3: Don't listen to advice preachers. An advice preacher is someone who pretends to be telling you a strategy for success when in reality they are telling you what they expect to receive from the world - for their own benefit and none of yours. If someone expresses moral condemnation over simple disagreement with their suggestions or even the presence of other ideas, they are an advice preacher.

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>>18697695
You should marry and then have sex. It's great that you've made it to 22 without violating your principles

>>18697695
>Now I want to have sex, but I missed the age to learn, experiment, fail, and learn!

No you didn't.

Tons of people are complete and total shit at sex.

How do you get better?
Experience.
An open mind.
A hint of curiosity and reciprocity.

Remember, sex is a two person thing. Don't get stuck thinking it's a 1 player game.

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>>18697695

You can be Christian btw. AND have sex.
Read a bit of Tillich, Schleiermacher, Bultmann, Pannenberg, Sölle and Radford Ruether. Don't abandon you faith cause you wanna get your dick wet. Please don't.

It is not worth it. And it isn't necessary. (See above).

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RWQFYikjxZI&list=PLBV6X10gsVCpix__rMW0sIq6m9WYf1K1V

As well have your first time with someone you are at least friends with, better love. Yes, casual sex can be nice as well and even really good body wise, but for truly transcendent sex you need to care for the person you enter - the one you "get to know" truly. Talking a lot about your personal issues before fucking helps as well. As well litting the atmosphere (Candles, music, etc.)

Concerning stuff you should know: Watch some Videos that explain how to finger and lick her well. You probably won't last long your first time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vu-a5nDUvqs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2Bl1kJeYzY

>>18697695
Get drunk with a girl and just let one thing out lead to another...