Should i compare myself to others or not? I feel like not doing

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>>18697685
>Should i compare myself to others
Yes.

>>18697685

why not a little from column A and a little from column B?

the problem most people have with comparing themselves to others is that they just end up using that as a reason to justify stagnation

>ill never be as attractive as that guy so i should literally never try to have a love life

is something we see a lot of here. So don't compare your self to him. instead compare your self to other men of similar social skills and looks. There are tons that are dating. they aren't dating the mega hot normie girls you tend to fall for, but their dating and enjoying it, so why can't you?

thats just an example of course. comparing your self to others is often synonymous with 'giving up because you arent someone else' and thats where people go wrong.

>>18697685
Yes you should, but you should also use this comparison to learn from people who are doing better than you on something, in order to improve yourself.

>>18697693
>why not a little from column A and a little from column B?

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