How can I forgive somone who won't take responsibility for his actions? Makes my blood boil seeing how those who hurt me are so fucking happy or just well off more than I am.
>>18696652
why would you want to do that?
>>18696655
I'm tired from feeling anger.
>>18696658
Then don't hold onto it realize nothing they do matters.
>>18696658
then move on, but forgiving them wont necessarily stop the anger, especially a forced forgiveness.
>>18696652
ie you want revenge
>>18696652
the same way you'd forgive someone who did take responsibility for their actions. it's not about fairness, it's about forgiving the debt so that you can move on. there's probably some unconscious reason you're resisting forgiving them, like maybe you're afraid to think that people aren't as good as you previously thought.
>>18696652
I know how it feels, OP. I do it constantly.