So I started talking to an old friend of mine, whom I had a crush on and she had one on me (nothing happend because we both were really beta at the time), after 3 years we haven't talked, soon to discover she has a boyfriend. We chat quite a lot and even went out as friends (which we made sure we were). I didn't think it would end in a relationship because I don't really want one after a mean brakeup, and she seemed quite stable with hers. Now she told me about how she feels she is about to end her relationship, and I feel like shit, because I feel it's because of me. after a vary mean brakeup that ended some what like hers is about to, I think I was the cause for it.
Am I a piece of shit for accidently doing that? And if so, should I help her fix her relationship?
>>18692762
you don't even know if you caused it. Also she has free will. This was her choice not yours. Stop blaming yourself for stuff you didn't do.
>>18692796
Let me refine myself, am I a piece of shit for even not wanting a relationship, being glad for what happend?
>>18692804
>>18692804
As long as your not leading on this friend of yours by promising you'd get with them. Then no.
Are you glad she's breaking up?