I'm utterly in love with my GF. We've been dating for 3 months now, been best friends for 6 years. We don't arguments, we don't fight, every second I spend with her I'm happy. I don't look at porn anymore, I just think about her. She's everything I want. She doesn't care when I go out with my friends. She has a kid who's 3 from her last relationship. The guy got extremely abusive to her and her kid so she left him. I don't have any issue with this tbqh, call me a duck if you'd like.
The only issue is, I'm only 22. I feel like, in the back of my mind thats too early to settle down. Everyone says you should wait until you own a house and make a lot of money before settling down. I'm conflicted. I would love to spend the rest of my life with her, to grow old, have a few kids and stuff.
The other part of me feels like it's a waste of my youth.
What do lads?
I should probably add that she handles all parenting of her son right now. She's never asked me to watch him or anything smiliar.
3 months is short. See how the relationship goes.
Remember that love you nurture and keep is better than serial honeymoon phases.
She's trying to trick you into being the kid's dad. It's up to you OP. Are you willing to raise another man's son?
Do not waste your early 20's on a relationship. This is your time to figure out what you want to do with the rest of your life. I know from experience, that you cannot accomplish this in a long term relationship.
>>18690808
There are so many things wrong with this post.
>22 years old
>too young to settle down
Thats a gigantic meme that is pushed on people. You should have your shit together by your mid 20s otherwise your life planning is shit tier.
>single mother
Red flag, abort for the love of god, that kid will probably end up hating you and you are going to argue with her all the time over how to raise him which brings me to my next point
>3 months
>never argues
You are still in the honeymoon stage. Give it another 9 months and try and see if you can make that statement again. Every single couple argues. Thats a fact of life.
>>18690808
> Single mother
Tfw op is a cuck
Don't waste your youth dude. Your 20s should be spent partying and banging sluts. Kids are a burden. That kid deserves to be stuck with a single mother idc if she was raped or something that child will never love you faggot
>>18690942
>Your 20s should be spent partying and banging sluts
How do you think single mothers are created you dipshit?
>>18690808
OP, I got married when I was 18 (I'm 26 now), and I don't regret it. I'm certainly not suggesting you rush into marriage, but the bottom line is there are people you are compatible with and people you are not compatible with. If you find someone who fits perfectly with you, there is no good reason to leave them.
>"But what about the loads of pussy I could pull if I was single?"
If you are desperate to fuck a ton of other people, then go ahead and break off the relationship, but don't expect her to wait around for you.
>"But what if she's not my 'soulmate?'"
"Soulmates" don't exist; you don't live in a Disney movie. You either vibe with someone or you don't. From what you've said, however, it sounds like you two have a great relationship.
The only red flag is her kid. You pointedly mentioned that she does not expect you to do any parenting. At only 3 months in, that is to be expected, but if you foresee having a longterm relationship with this girl, you will eventually have to step up and be a part of that kid's life. If that is more than you want to deal with, you may want to go ahead and break things off. Otherwise, I say stay together for as long as the relationship is good.