What do you do when someone you consider a good friend ignores your attempts to reach out for weeks or months?
>>18688685
You change your consideration.
>>18688685
Did you do something to ruin the friendship?
You probably deserve it. What did YOU do to deserve it? That's the question here.
>>18688732
>>18688741
Nothing, we have always had a strong relationship. I consider this person to be a friend in the realest sense, not just a passing acquaintance. I don't believe I have offended them that's why I'm wondering what to do. I'm frankly at a point in my life where I choose not to chase people. I've let others fade without a word but this is someone who I'm confused about because they say they love me and cherish our friendship but they always ignore me.
>>18688685
I do this, but only to people who put no effort into the conversation. They message "how have you been?" or "what have you been up to?" The people I talk to every day send clips of a new movie they're interested in or a new song or even a cute gif... it's far easier to respond to and then maybe we can talk about what we've been up to. Does this make sense?
>>18688685
Okay so here's my story and I'll try to keep it short without making it green.
I have had so many people in my life. Now I am in my junior year at University.
Out of nowhere, I start hating people. I found it hard to keep it up with the people at mu university because they were all pretentious and lacked ambitions. I even chose not to get into relationship from "my" University.
I abandoned using smartphones since October 2016 and also deactivated every kind of social media accounts. I kept my number off for good 3 months haha. But it felt good when someone visited me just to inquire what was I up to. My parents received calls and texts from my colleagues and friends too and it made me happy and now I know who are real to me and with whom I have to call my ties off.