Any advice on dealing with false allegations and sexual assault charges?
Ex-girlfriend is a nut and decided that I "raped" her 4 months before we broke up... Which is total bullshit, and they're basing the charges off of Facebook messages where she told me I violated her consent and me being a dumbass and not just ignoring her told her that I'm sorry and I didn't know that's how she felt. We were together for about a year. She decided to press charges against me after she assaulted me and child protective services got involved and I left her. Me being a cool guy, didn't press charges against her punching me in the head repeatedly, police were involved though and there's a record of it which should help my case. Getting a lawyer sorted out this week, but just looking for any advice from anyone that's gone through something similar.
Icing on the shit cake is that I work in vulnerable sectors and she's trying to basically ruin my reputation and my career here.
>>18686692
>I'm sorry and I didn't know that's how she felt
you a stupid motherfucker
>>18686712
I mean, when someone you love and care about says that you hurt them- I think the natural response is to try and comfort them. The conversation happened about a week or so before we broke up, IMO she was just digging for ammunition and was planning to use it against me.
But, yeah I'm a dumb ass for even entertaining the idea with her and trying to validate her.
Hire a good attorney, beat the case and then sue for defamation. If the situation is as you say you'll most likely win both.