Got invited to another party tonight but the girl I've been going to the other frat parties with doesn't want to go.
Maybe it's just paranoia or insecurity, but I feel like she just doesn't want to go with me.
I wanted to join a fraternity to hopefully force myself out of loneliness, whether that's making friends and/or meeting a girl.
Now that I met a girl that I actually like and don't just want to hook up with, I feel lost.
I want to be with her outside of just parties but I'm to afraid to even bring up just us two hanging out.
Maybe I fell for the Chad meme but I can't help but think that she's blowing me off for a Chad.
I'm sad /adv/
What do?
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>>18686520
>What do?
Stop being afraid and just tell the bitch what you want. You can't make the choice to act spineless and then lament about the consequences. If you want to spend time with her, tell her. Thats it. All this "blowing me off for a Chad" nonsense is just made up bullshit to distract from the fact that if another guy has the balls to man up and ask her out him being a "Chad" isn't the reason for your failure, you are.
>>18686535
b-but what if she doesn't want to and that ruins the whole friendship?
>>18686561
This goes two ways:
1) She wants to be with you
2) She doesn't want to be with you, and you know that and can move on. And you don't want her friendship, because you don't want to be just friends