How can i know if i'm not just another 'nice person'?

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Nemo
2017-09-03 06:29:11 Post No. 18685609
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Nemo 2017-09-03 06:29:11 Post No. 18685609 [Report]

How can i know if i'm not just another 'nice person'? Without qualities... Without being interesting.
Most people seem to be able to keep a conversations, but i simples have no interest. I do have a urge to not be alone anymore, but i can't talk to people.
I see myself as a boring person and, because of that, think that i'll bore anyone who would hang out with me, or even date me.
Maybe i'm just already dead inside and don't care about nothing.

Anonymous 2017-09-03 06:32:24 Post No.18685616
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Anonymous 2017-09-03 06:32:24 Post No.18685616 [Report]

I have been in your position and I am getting better.
My advise is to get some relatable hobbies or at least you are not ashamed of talking about, talk about interests everyone has like movies or music.
But the best thing to is stop being nervous and to stop thinking of yourself as that person who can't talk to people.
It almost like people can sense this feeling you got and become quiet because of it, I have made the chattiest people silent before just by being naturally awkward.

It is something I seem to grew out of and worked my way out of.
I can hold a decent conversation.

Nemo 2017-09-03 07:14:26 Post No.18685751
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>>18685616
Normal conversations i can keep. But people will always, eventually, fade away from my life. Not that i ever felt something about this, or even missed them. I just want to understand with is it with me that makes people go away.
Or if this is something real for everyone and i'm just childish for not knowing.
I see people hanging out all the time, or even talking all day... I just can't bond with people.

Anonymous 2017-09-03 07:38:54 Post No.18685850
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>>18685751
You have to offer something in value to people. Don't respond to people. Make people respond to your own original thoughts. If you are just reacting to what other people are saying 70-100% of the time, you are just sucking energy out of that person. Contribute your own original thoughts. Doesn't matter how stupid they are.

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