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Sup /adv/
So I've been speaking to this girl for quite some time (about 5 months) and we live really close together (1 hour drive away)....but we still haven't met.
We have gotten really close and I honestly have really strong feelings for her. We always plan to meet but come closer to the day...she cancels. Makes excuses and blames me...says "you put me off".
She has anxiety....but so do I. I fight it to see her and yet, she doesn't do the same. It's almost as if she really doesn't wanna meet me.
Like she's happy just speaking to me online. I really don't want that. I want something to be real. Everything online feels fake...i want to have her here with me.
Anyway, she's cancelled on me again and just looking for some advice.
Should I just walk away, leave her? I really don't want to...but I also want more. I can't handle this online thing for much longer.
help me /adv/
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Walk away. You're being used as her validation dispenser machine/emotional tampon. She's not really interested on you since she's been flaking for more than two times in your story.
Realize that there'll be always people who behave like this, and have some respect to your own time and cut away your investment and loss. Just saying.
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>>18684999
She's probably lied to you about something and meeting you would mean she gets caught. Walk away and never look back.
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>>18685013
She's actually cancelled on me over 5 times. Keeps telling me she really does want to see me but she's scared. Surly if you really want to see someone you would face that silly fear like I do.
Maybe you are right and she's just using me as an emotional tampon.
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