A friend told me "what if I platonically am in love with

>>18684532
She loves you, but not romantically. She wants to be buddies with you for life.

>>18684532
you are like a brother to her

She wants you to be her man-tampon so she can have a better man-dildo.

>>18684532
Since she phrased it as a question, it's likely she's in confusion regarding her own feelings towards you. She tried to gauge your reaction without rocking the boat too much.

Well I think I fucked up everything replying that I don't know sincei can't understand this platonic love thing

>>18684670
So you basically told her to fuck off
Good, she wasn't serious about you enough to grow some balls and tell you whatever she wanted to tell you without being vague.

>girl tells me she """was""" platonically in love with me for a long time
>i ask her what she thinks the word means
>"unrequited love, right?"

>>18684670
Good choice, her loss.

>>18684532
It means you won't get to put your dick in her pussy ever, and you'll be expected to pay for her shit when her much more attractive boyfriend (who does put his dick in her pussy) has finally had enough of her shit.

>>18684670
Do you harbor any feelings on her? I don't think it's "fucking up" since you answer with an equally vague statement. If she did have any attachment to you it'd just make her think about you harder. If not then it's her loss anyway. Best to not think then overthink about it much, man.

>>18684708
I do harbor feelings on her but she lives like 600 km away and I don'think I will see her in like 2-3 years so I'm not sure

>>18684532
"What if" is a bit non committal, they don't want to say they are in case they can find the best option, bit like shadow boxing around you. Possibly. You should ask them.

>>18684722
Long distance that much? In this case you shouldn't even thinking about it much, man. Just think about it if the other person is really close from you.