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So there's a thing that botters about my gf
She lives with a roommate, this doesnt bother me much, he is ugly and shit, I trust her on this, but... On weekends there are many situations where i have to wait 1-2 hours for her to respond, yep i know she is making a dinner, cleaning the house or shit like that - normal, right? Thing is she is a "gamer" girl, she can go and play with him and cant be fucked to respond me for 2-3 hours straight. Its not like i need attention 100% of the time, have to talk 24/7, nah, but i often wait 4h for her to answer a question, our convos are like 1-2 msgs and she is out for another 2 hours until she responds again.
I know how games works and i know that there's no excuse to NOT BE able to respond in games she plays. I know that if i played the most intense dota 2 game i still could respond while im fucking dead. Yesterday i replied her at around 9 pm, went to bed around 11 and... she read my message at 4 am, like wtf. Its more frustrating because she is playing with him, its like she likes company of him more - inb4 because you are an overreacting faggot - nah, im fighting with myself to confront her about this and now im keeping it chill
Ok, so whats my problem and question?
How can one explain this shit? Doesnt this mean she doesnt care for me that much? Is there anyone that can explain this shit to me and make me chill the fuck down? Am i overreacting? If i went partying and didnt reply for 7 fucking hours she would sure not be amused. No, i didnt want her to reply at 1 am or so, but playing GTA 5 for 7 hours straight without the opportunity to reply within the first 3 hours? Nah, im not gonna believe
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It's not hard to get lost in video games especially since a majority won't tell you what the actual time is. Why do you think casinos don't have clocks?
You're overreacting to nothing. Realize that texting is not instant messaging and you should never expect a quick reply
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> If i went partying and didnt reply for 7 fucking hours she would sure not be amused
Do just that. Don't reply the same minute then wait for her answer for 7 hours like a dumbass. Do your thing. If vidya games are more important to her than your relationship, then you don't want her anyway
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>>18684504
I took that into account, but man, still that shit doesnt look right.
On the other hand the first thing she did when she woke up now was to text me (messenger, so its instant messaging to be clear), say hi, ask if we gonna see to talk before my 5 days course (5 days without each other is quite much for us), if im ready...
>>18684509
If i just had an opportunity for that then id sure bite. Worth adding is when we are together its all good, nothing looks like she doesnt care or anything, thats why im wondering if im overreacting, or not
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>>18684542
you are over reacting. I empathize but believe nothing is amiss with your girl
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>>18684542
You don't actually need an excuse not to reply.
Just don't reply and make up some bullshit why. If she gets angry, tell her she does the same shit.
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You have a higher need for information and contact than what she has.
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>>18684580
>>18684600
Seems right, as i said - when we are together its all good and that what should matter most for me i guess. Im gonna see how she is when im out for these 5 days anyway
Well guys, i guess theres nothing more to add, i just have to chill the fuck down and enjoy whats good about it, because nothing looks like we would break up or something like that, so thanks everyone that replied!
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