My girlfriend told me she once had sex with 3 guys at once and

Tell her your gay. You probably read trap manga already so it shouldn't be too hard.

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>>18683960
Best thing to do is just be upfront about it. That's honestly really gross of her.

If you really don't want her to know then you can't break up with her for at least a month or two from the time she told you and you have to treat her the same. Just slowly become more distant then be like "you're a great girl but I don't feel like we have much in common so I want to go our separate ways."

>>18683960
If you had sex with 2 girls would you feel accomplished?

Honestly this is immature shit but whatever.

>>18683998
>If you had sex with 2 girls would you feel accomplished?
No.

>>18683960
I don't believe you're mature enough to date anybody anon.

>>18684098
t. cuck

>>18683998
I have, and I don't.

Just adding my two cents.

>>18683998
Actually i wouldn't. Maybe when I was 15, but not today.
but im not op.

>>18683960
Just separate, you can say you want to be single or you don't fancy her, which is true.

she'd probably have the same response if she found out you masturbated to little 2d girls

who cares, the past is the past
I even had a shit fetish before in my college years, ate a girls shit once

>>18684255
Well, people like us care. That's fine if you don't care, but other people care. Getting hostile over it shows your immaturity, not like anyone he's insulting the girl. He's allowed to pick the people he wants in his life.

>>18683960
No let her know thats why

>>18683960
>How do I tactfully break up with her so she doesn't know that's the reason I'm leaving her?
It's gonna be transparent as fuck, I'm pretty sure she will be able to tell your behaviour changed just after she confessed that fact
Just tell her the truth, you're not ok with it.
If you think it makes you look petty you're right. but it will save you bigger headaches in the future since you're obviously not ready for this.

>>18684266
Well I mean when you're young you do things you regret, it doesn't and shouldn't define your character in the present.

I used to yell nigger with my friends in high school when I drove by black people, does that make me a bad person when I'm no longer a racist?

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>>18683998
>asking autists who can barely speak to a girl how they would feel if they were naked in the presence of two of them

The answer is no btw

>>18684281
Your past makes you who you are. You can't just say "Oh nothing I did before defined me, this person in the present sprouted out of nowhere" because that's a load of shit, your entire self is based off your past and there's nothing wrong with that. People live and learn, that's the entire point. Don't pretend like it didn't play any part of who you are though, that's horseshit and you know it.

But to answer your question, no, I wouldn't say you're a bad person but I wouldn't want you in my life either way. I don't want someone that has done bad things in my life even if I don't think you're a bad person. For an extreme example, I'm sure there are people out there that have killed someone when they were younger but they have long since been rehabilitated through therapy and are now charitable good people who help out their community. I don't want that guy in my life though. Good for him that he's moved on but me accepting that person and their acts doesn't mean accepting them into my personal life.

Besides nobody is calling the girl a bad person. I'm all for women doing whatever the fuck they want and I have absolutely no intention of stopping them. Go nuts, fuck as much as you want, go fucking crazy. Doesn't mean I want that in my life though, doesn't mean when you decide that you're tired of getting gangbanged that I'll take you. I respect the hustle but find someone else.

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>>18684281
>Well I mean when you're young you do things you regret
If it's just a spur of the moment thing, I can understand that argument. But a decision to eat literal shit or get spitroasted is anything but.

It means you met up with them, and decided this is what you wanted. You go to their place, and you decided yet again that this is what you wanted. They undress, you still make that decision to move forward. Then comes the moment where you're about to get spitroasted or eat actual shit apparently, and you still make that same decision. On top of that, in the middle of the act you decide not to stop and maybe even do it again in the future.

This is fundamentally different from doing something like saying something shitty in the heat of an argument as far as I'm concerned.

>>18683960
desu lad just be upfront about it
>>18684255
>ate a girls shit once
how did it go for you/her?

>>18684302
Sounds like you're just some control freak who's afraid of being unable to be around people you can't control.

Just break up with her and say you need some time apart, you didn't even have to mention the gangbang part; you can literally just google "how to break up with a girlfriend".

>>18684317
I'm not OP and how am I a control freak when I literally said to do whatever you want? You sound like you can't deal with the fact that just because you can do whatever you want doesn't mean everyone else has to accept it.

Please explain to me, what is the "control" aspect of this? I wouldn't tell anyone to change for me, that's stupid. You should do whatever the fuck makes you happy, it just won't be with me. You're the one that's controlling if you're trying to shame a guy to staying with you.

>>18684331
You are responding to a bait

>>18684331
You can't handle people you don't like, and instead of compromising, you just remove them from your life. You can't handle arguments so you need to act aggressively and need to control what people have to feel or think.

It's completely fine though, some people are like that, idc.

This thread is pretty pointless, fyi.
Just google "how to breakup with gf".

>>18683960
THIRTY SEVEN!?!?!

>>18684341
Why would you want people in your life if you dislike them?

>>18684341
There is no compromising if people have done things you don't want in your life. That's not a thing, you can't erase those things. Besides, why even bother? There's plenty of fish in the sea, you don't need to settle with people who have done things you don't like and why would you ever want to? This just sounds like the bitter ramblings of a woman who can't accept a guy doesn't want them.

>You can't handle arguments
How and what arguments?

>act aggressively
How? What aggression?

>need to control what people have to feel or think
Literally making things up.

>>18684350
sometimes, you aren't always right, so it's good to have people you "dislike" or disagree with to tell you that you could possibly be wrong, but that's just how I see things, and like I said, people are different, and there's nothing wrong with being a control freak

alright last reply, time to hit the hay

also OP, just google how to break up with gf, and it's really up to you on what option to choose depending on what kind of girl she is and how she responds to certain things.

>>18683960
>she once had sex with 3 guys at once and that threesomes
that would be a foursome then

retard

>>18684361
see you did it again, if you weren't a control freak you wouldn't have called me a woman or bothered to reply to me

goodnight.

>>18684370
Let me help you read since you're dyslexic:

>had sex with 3 guys once
>saying that the foursome only happened once
>threesomes were common when she was younger
>implying threesomes happened several times and the foursome was a separate instance

>>18684134

Same.

>>18683998
Feeling accomplished because you had sex with 2 girls is immature.

>>18683960
It's nice that you want to spare her feelings, but you should understand very, very clearly that she would not do the same for you.

When you're older you'll eventually have known a long list of females with that sort of sexualy background, and you'll have a better understanding of who and what they are.

>>18683998
Yeah, but he is a fucking guy, it's not the same. It is not.

What is the problem exactly? I do not get why females should have minimal to zero experience. If she is only doing you now it should not matter.

>>18684419
>I do not get why females should have minimal to zero experience.
You know there is a middle ground between pure virgin and literally getting gangbanged on a regular basis. I'm having trouble believing that you honestly don't see where the line is drawn.

>>18684397
how was it, mate?
Im probably never having one myself.

>>18684424

Sounds like the experimental sexual phase many young people regret.You have a point about the middle ground. It's not uncommon that young people go wild and out of controll for a period of time before settling down.

>>18684419
>beign ok with the fact that your current gf rode every dick she came upon

What kind of cuck are you?

>>18684448

>Implying I didn't ride every hole avaliable before meeting her.

>>18684448
fun fact
all the guys i know who got virgin girls and kept them since teen years, all got cheated on coz those girls would get curious in their 20s about how other dicks would feel like

>>18684419
get help
as >>18684424
put it
>literally gangbanged

>>18684456
That's just your experience.
In real world marriages and relationships with virgins are much more stable and happier.

>>18684461

That sounds really boring no offense. Sexual experiences with more people can be interesting and exciting, life experience. Doesn't mean people should fuck the entire town and never settle down. Sex doesn't have to be some degrading scar that marks people for life. Relax about it, it's not a big deal.

If you are indeed breaking up tell her the truth. No need to play games, just do it. It will hurt her regardless.

>>18684461
>In real world
this is real world, i didnt see those happen in some movie
thinking that a shitty person will be loyal just because she is a virgin will lead to disaster
you should focus on finding a person that isnt a manipulative piece of shit instead of going for virginity meme

>>18684484
Ye my man, divorce is really exiting times for the man, nothing like losing your kids and home to spice things up a bit

>>18684490
It's not the virginity that makes marriages last, it's the fact that virgins are just statistically less shitty people.

>>18684302
>>18684317
Control freak is just a label women use when they've been offended, the reality is he's not controlling you or telling you how to act. He just doesn't approve of it, and that's fine.

>>18684494

People should stop fucking around when they decide to stay exclusive. If not neither are ready for a monogamous relationship or kids.

There's nothing wrong with wanting a virgin girlfriend anyway as long you're not an asshole about it. If you don't go out your way to make people feel bad then your personal preferences are not a problem. If a woman gets offended by the mere existence of said preference, that's her problem.

to all the virgin hunters: what if the girl was a virgin but also a compulsive masturbator, thinking about bbc but saying she would never actually do it? (she didnt do it for real after all up to now)

>>18684507

True. Still kinda mean to dump her without telling her the real reason why. Just proves that he doesn't want to be "that guy". So much easier to be honest on the internet.

>>18683960
There is no reason she should have bragged to you about this, you are not her girl friends, whom were doing the same thing since it is so "common". She should have been more tactful if she wanted to unburden herself and dump it on you to deal with so I wouldn't worry one minute about being tactful in breaking up. Just fucking break up.

>>18684525
Its obvious OP doesn't want to hurt her feelings, he just wants to slither away calmly and cleanly. I don't think its mean because nobody would take this well, it'll just end in a horrible argument or worse for the guy and both of them will feel like shit.

>>18684456
totally agree and even my own mother cheated on my father and she was a virgin when they married or at least that is what he was told

>>18684534
>There is no reason she should have bragged to you about this
how do you know she was bragging and that he didnt ask in the first place?

>>18684539

Then she will not learn anything. About either keep stuff like this to herself or find a more liberal guy.

>>18684551
She said sex with two men common, knowing its not, but she did 3 men once. This was not a confession of regrets while young and dumb. It doesn't matter if he asked or she blurted it out over a beer.

For future reference. You can have a sexual history conversation without providing detail. Seriously you can.

>>18684575
she could have said as a way of offering an excuse. maybe from her perspective it was common and everyone she knew was doing it. you're projecting awfully heavily and literally making an entire conversation up

I find it interesting how many guys admire and jack it to porn stars. Guys at work love sasha grey, brag about what she did. She is so great blabla still a fucking slut and look down on her at the same time. They want partners that have similar or less sexually experience than them selves, guess they feel threatened? Or worried that females that fucked around very much will cheat?

Why is it so gross that she gangbanged?

>>18684456
Girl doesnt have to be virgin i just wouldnt want someone who rode every stick to be my partner.

>>18684455
Im sure you had threesomes every other day now fuck off to fantasy world.

>>18684455
Donuts don't count, fatass.

>>18684634

Maybe it's because he wants to feel special. And he can't anymore because she gave it so easy to other guys in the past. Trying to understand the psychology behind it.

>>18684627
if you need to ask this, you obviously can't tell the differecen between fantasy & reality...

>>18684607
Sure, everybody is doing it can be used as an excuse or as a base line of normal behavior but she had to top what she considered normal by adding a guy. She easily could have said she was foolish and did something she thought at the time was normal but now wished she hadn't. That didn't transpire.

I realize girls do MMF threesomes, been one of the guys in several as well as a 5 guy one girl gangbang (see I'm bragging)

>>18684631
It's a big leap from sex with three guys separately and sex with three in one session.

>>18684655
>That didn't transpire.
I'm sorry am I missing something and you're actually OP? Otherwise you have no way of knowing if it transpired or not.

I just think it's weird you're LARPing the entire context and conversation lol

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>1 chick 3 guys
That is not a threesome, that's a gangbang.

>>18684627
There are chicks who you only want to fuck and there are chicks who you want to marry

>>18684643

Maybe I don't. Most people I know that have settled down have a wild sexual past, the females and men. Here in Norway we have a high school festival named russetida. Everyone literally fucks everyone, eaven in trees while people watch. Maybe scandinavians can mess around more without sanctions from others. People don't seem to care that much, only religious freaks.

>>18684416
It's exactly the same.
>key-lock bullshit

>>18684660
Thats what im saying, its okay if girl had few partners and had sex with them but if girl was just sluting around its just disgusting. I mean OPs chick had total of 5 guys in 2 sexual interactions that we know about, just think of the real number.

>>18684673
Boy am I glad I don't live in Scandinavia

>>18684673
>russetida
Just to note, the fucking and everything... -not the premise of the festival

>>18684709

True. Festival is to celebrate finishing high school. I remember most people loosing their virginity in a bad drunken way during it. Many of the virgin girls got fucked by multiple guys during that month. I don't have problems with people screwing around but this festival makes people do things because of peer pressure. I question if people really wanted to do it. Fucked up.

>>18683998
A girl getting a guy to have sex with her is no accomplishment as it's easy as fuck. The same is not true for men since it takes a lot more effort.

>>18684720
They'll have no sympathy from me, they're adults

>>18684661
>she once had sex with 3 guys at once
From the first sentence of the OP idiot. I realize you want to twist this to suit you but when it is in the first sentence and you ignore then you add nothing to the conversation.