Have any of you guys succeeded in dating again with someone you've dated before? What's the best course of action?
>>18683601
Here's my story. I'll try to be brief:
>Earlier this year, I dated this qt3.14 kinda nerdy girl I've found in a dating app.
>She divorced from her husband two years ago.
>She's messed up by the divorce, to the point of taking pills because of it.
>We dated 6 times in total, in about 1 1/2 month. She claimed I was the first guy she dated repeated times since her divorce.
>We also used to talk 1-2 hours everyday. I have 200+ pages of dialogue with her.
>I know she liked me, but I also know I was more into her than the other way around.
>She made clear she didn't want a proper boyfriend, because she still had strong feelings which she was trying to deal with, and she wanted to do certain things (like traveling) without having to report to anyone.
>But I was blinded by stupidity and ignored it.
>One day, she said she had a fight with her mother. After this day, she gradually stopped talking to me the way she used to.
>We had a last date after this, in which we barely kissed. She kept saying "Good morning" everyday in the next week, but refused to engage in a proper conversation.
>I asked her on another date, but she refused.
>Then I stopped talking to her and began dating other girl.
After this, she stopped going out to clubs the way she used to do, as far as I know. She didn't do the travel she was planning to do. And she started to use depressive quotes as whatsapp status messages. Everything seems to point out that she had a relapse in depression.
As for me, I dated two other girls for about 1 1/2 month each, but they weren't satisfying.
I know it is probably not a good idea, since she has serious issues and didn't want to keep the relationship up. But I want to give it another try. In this case, what would be the best approach? Should I text her? Call her? Should I wait to meet her in person? (We like to go to the same places, so I know I'll eventually meet her one day or another). What do you guys think?
Nope. I tried "dating" my first gf again after breaking up and being separated for a month. She invited to her apartment for dinner and to talk. there was no dinner and little talking, but about 3-hours of sex which was way better then any of the sex we had when we were together. We got into a fight literally the next day and were reminded why we broke up in the first place. the end.
Don't do it.
>>18683677
Why not?