Seems like my ex of 9 months is now dating the guy she briefly dated before we got together 3 years earlier.
Physically, he's basically an uglier, worse dressed version of me.
I'm still incredibly in love with her and want her back, but have done nocontact for 9 months. IDK what to do now it seems like she's dating a cut rate me. Every ounce of me wants to contact her and tell her how much I'm still in love with her, but my friends say to continue nocontact.
Fuck, why does this have to hurt so much.
>>18683534
>I'm still incredibly in love with her and want her back, but have done nocontact for 9 months.
I know that feel bro
Stop. You're putting them on a pedestal and ignoring their bad qualities. Think about them. They're there. You know they are.
t. guy who was broken up about his ex for a long time
>>18684108
I'm not doing that at all. I'm fully cognizant of her bad qualities, but there weren't very many and the relationship ended because of my own stupidity. I was in the depths of total unconditional love with her and I lost her without warning in less than a week after three years, and have barely spoken to her in 8 months, and it's absolute torture.