>In relationship
>Sext with sluts
>Feel guilty
>Quit
>Get overly horny, feel like I'm going to cheat
>Start sexting sluts again
Obviously I have a personality defect, but is there any way I can justify this?
>>18682807
Fuck your girlfriend instead of being retarded.
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>>18682807
Nope.
>>18682822
She's not a slut I can degrade though.
>>18682840
>degrade
Here we go, you know your sin
>>18682840
Sure you can, if that's your fetish then talk to her about it.
>>18682941
Huh?
>>18682944
I respect my gf though. I wouldn't be dating her if she were a slut.
It depends. There are two possibilities.
The first is that you're going through a dull path in your relationship and letting off steam in the most harmless way you can find. You need to have a serious conversation with yourself regarding what you need our of your girlfriend that you're not getting, and then act upon this in order to stop feeling the need to sext with others.
The second possibility is that you're actually not ready for a monogamous commitment and need to go work out your issues alone before you can try to be in a relationship. (This is exceedingly common, but most people are in denial about it.)
Be honest with yourself and find the answer.
>>18682840
Quit being a sperg and accept that this is a part of yourself that you need to bury and fight off on a regular basis. Only you can do that. What you are describing has no justification. If your girlfriend knew you were getting your rocks off by interacting with other women it would break her heart. Take some responsibility for your actions.
>>18683107
I feel like its a mixture of both
Break it off, do some self-reflection, and find someone with compatible fetishes once you've learned how to tell the difference between what goes on in bed and what you actually think of the person.
There's a lot of overlap between the kink and polyamorous scenes too, FWIW.