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Hey, I just told my friends that I'm still a virgin. I'm 21, they're both 20. We were friends in high school and this summer we played basketball and smoked.
When I told them independently they each made it seem like it's not a big deal. This is possible being that they're pretty conservative, but having sex is such a big part of their lives that I imagine them looking down on me. Did I buy into a meme too hard or do my friends genuinely not care?
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>>18680879
If they are good friends they probably don't care (don't think you're lame) because they love you and know how good of a person you are. People that don't know you well and learn that you're a virgin, might start thinking you're an autist
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its not a big deal
you dont have to be so insecure: )
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>>18680879
trust me, they dont give a fuck. i never lost it until i was 24 and i have friends years later that i doubt have ever even kissed a chick and i dont give 2 fucks
seriously, sex isnt magical. after being in a longterm relationship for years especially after work id rather rub one out within 5 minutes than deal with the foreplay and physical work of sex with my GF for 45 minutes
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>>18680879
A confident individual is not scathe by such thoughts.
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>>18680888
>they love you and know how good of a person you are
We aren't that close
>>18681006
>seriously, sex isnt magical
I don't know how they feel about it and that's why I'm asking. For my situation, sex itself is very important. After I'm with a couple of nice girls I will be ready for a relationship. That's life altering
>after being in a longterm relationship for years
I've been lonely as hell for the last 3 years and was never intimate with a girl in high school. I sniffed the comfort of a relationship when I was 14 but she crushed my heart before I got comfortable around girls. Since then I've only gotten worse at socializing and
>>18681018
It's not out of insecurity, I could lose my virginity any time on Tinder or at a club if I wanted to fuck any girl. Intimacy is one of the last things that I haven't ruined in my life and I don't want to shatter the potential of sex on some slut. I'm hoping to befriend a girl when I go back to school in a couple weeks.
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>>18680890
Not everything is about insecurity, friend. Knowledge of my friend's opinion on my virginity is insightful when determining my persona for winter break. I won't think about these people for the next three months so it's good to make figure these things out while their impression is fresh.
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