So how good an idea is it to confess your love for a friend that

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2017-09-01 09:01:09 Post No. 18677881
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Anonymous 2017-09-01 09:01:09 Post No. 18677881 [Report]

So how good an idea is it to confess your love for a friend that lives 1 000 km away?

We've known each other for around 3 years now and due to the circumstances we met nothing happened.

Right after meeting her I felt there was something but she got a boyfriend. Then Summer came, she went home and then spent a year abroad. We re-met again last year, both of us single but too close to make a move.

She's always been in my mind during all these time, I have been with other girls but I even thought of her while having sex lol.

The thing is now I have moved back home so we are obviously not gonna see each other with that frequency. We had the same group of friends and some of them insisted that she felt something for me. She is also a strange and most of the time shows affection by being rude and closing up.

If I were to tell her it would be via text which is not a great idea.

What does /adv/ think? Feel free to ask any questions, thank you.

Anonymous 2017-09-01 09:44:05 Post No.18677915
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Anonymous 2017-09-01 09:44:05 Post No.18677915 [Report]

>>18677881
>So how good an idea is it to confess your love for a friend that lives 1 000 km away?
Bad idea. Especially if you're not going to tell her in person.

If you really want to see or be with this girl then you need to take the risk of closing that 1000km gap.

However you may want to test the waters first by visitng her again. You need to ask yourself "Would I be okay living here? Is she really worth uprooting my life for?"
Dont assume she is going to uproot hers for you.

Anonymous 2017-09-01 09:59:57 Post No.18677933
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Anonymous 2017-09-01 09:59:57 Post No.18677933 [Report]

>>18677915
I guess I will visit her sometime since she still lives close to a lot of our friends. Going back to living there is not a possibility since I have ties here now, but we could always meet every couple of months or so.

Anonymous 2017-09-01 10:41:26 Post No.18677994
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Anonymous 2017-09-01 10:41:26 Post No.18677994 [Report]

>>18677933
>but we could always meet every couple of months or so.
You then have to acknowledge then that THAT is not an ideal relationship.
If anything you will just be friends with benefits.

Anonymous 2017-09-01 11:16:18 Post No.18678063
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Anonymous 2017-09-01 11:16:18 Post No.18678063 [Report]

>>18677994
sure, I mean in a way I am feeling that this would help to feel better about myself I don't know how to explain it

Anonymous 2017-09-01 11:40:17 Post No.18678096
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Anonymous 2017-09-01 11:40:17 Post No.18678096 [Report]

You might feel better in the short term but it's not worth it, as anon said above, if you're not willing to overcome that 1k gap then you won't get far with her. Besides long distance relationships don't work or end up in one of the parties cheating.

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