Is there any point in trying to be more social when no one initiates

Thread replies: 6
Thread images: 1

Anonymous
2017-09-01 01:56:25 Post No. 18677017
[Report] Image search: [Google]

File: ben.jpg (118KB, 500x700px) Image search: [Google]

Anonymous 2017-09-01 01:56:25 Post No. 18677017 [Report]

Is there any point in trying to be more social when no one initiates conversations with me? I feel like most people dislike me or pity me.

I do have social anxiety but I know that people would try to befriend me if I were prettier since everyone wants another pretty friend. I'm obviously not attractive enough for them to care about.

I just don't want to be a burden nor a nuisance. I've never had actual friends (the opportunities I had I messed up) and I really need to learn how to make some as an unimpressive girl.

Anonymous 2017-09-01 02:11:03 Post No.18677072
[Report]

Anonymous 2017-09-01 02:11:03 Post No.18677072 [Report]

>>18677017
Same, but guy.
I don't know. I've tried to initiate conversations with a lot of people, and have come across annoying every time.
I'm a senior in college, so time is running out, and that urgency is probably making everything worse.
Sorry, I don't have advice, but we're in the same boat, if that's comforting, friend.

Anonymous 2017-09-01 02:29:46 Post No.18677136
[Report]

Anonymous 2017-09-01 02:29:46 Post No.18677136 [Report]

>>18677072
I'm in my third year and it sucks that I haven't made any progress socially. It's unfortunate that you're experiencing this too

Anonymous 2017-09-01 02:37:07 Post No.18677157
[Report]

Anonymous 2017-09-01 02:37:07 Post No.18677157 [Report]

>>18677017

try a new style, always have a different style, experiment with new fashion.

You need to tune into those make up guru tutorials on youtube, which will help.

Anonymous 2017-09-01 02:45:46 Post No.18677176
[Report]

Anonymous 2017-09-01 02:45:46 Post No.18677176 [Report]

Im in the same boat I have pretty bad social anxiety now I didn't really before you could say I was just shy but now I just fucking hate myself

Anonymous 2017-09-01 05:48:03 Post No.18677537
[Report]

Anonymous 2017-09-01 05:48:03 Post No.18677537 [Report]

>>18677017
I don't know, I'm in the same situation. Even people I used to be close to come up with reasons, and that's fine. I wish one time that someone had the honesty to say I do not want to hang out with you, instead of I have something on that day.

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible. Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/