I'm into this guy since February of this year pretty much. Not head over heels, but just..intrigued. I want to talk to him/be around him/get to know him. I feel like we vibe a little and definitely flirt a little at work. He gave me his number a while back just to "get text messages" cause he is single (divorced) and if I had to guess.. lonely. I believe other people at work also text him regularly (so i'm not special basically).
He will say shit that makes me go hmmm all the time
>come hang out with me in the office
>in my dream you were X
>i worry about you
>doing anything on your day off?
>etc
We text back and forth pretty regularly. Some work stuff, but also just bullshit. I feel like I almost always initiate the text though, so I'm thinking of backing off to gauge how he reacts.
Also, I just came out of a long term relationship earlier this month, so there is a chance he is holding back so as not to seem like he is taking advantage of me. Or giving me space. He's a nice guy like that.
Wat do?
Just ask him how he feels
>>18676548
Forgot to mention that he is also technically my boss
Then don't pursue anything. That shit is way too tricky legally to get involved with.
>>18676555
It's not going to end well. It never does.
>>18676634
...but will it be FUN in the meanwhile? Hmmm
>>18676640
I should probably just chill the fuck out for a while. I mean, I just came out of a 6+ year relationship O.O
But why can't I hang out with someone though? Maybe next time he asks what I'm up to on my day off (which is sometimes also his) i'll say.. "I don't know, you?"
Like, is that his way of seeing if i'm available? I don't like the game!!
He's going on vacation soon and I wanna offer to watch his dog. Is this too try hard?