Masturbation feels better to me than sex. Physically.
I've had sex with 11 partners and have only ejaculated(from oral sex) once.
I had sex yesterday and as its almost always gone, had to finish myself off and cum in her mouth. I don't know what the fucking problem is but sex feels boring and masturbation sensations feel better, I have been jerking off since 5th grade so maybe that's the problem. I would rather be able to enjoy physical intimacy and worst of all with this problem I'm not gonna be able to reproduce unless I jerk off and stick my dick tip in the females pussy as I'm doing it. How do I fix this? Can I fix this?
yeah, stop masturbating for a while and only rely on sex, lol
>>18675135
Are you sure that's the only cause though? Because I've been described as just going through the motions and just bored
>>18675128
It happens to me too. I don't know about you, but to me fapping feels better because i do it super fast and sex and oral are usually MUCH slower, basically my dick is used to the fast tempo from my hand so sex doesn't make me feel much. You should try to tone down the masturbation and get more used to pussy i guess.
>>18675128
So was it meaningless sex, or was some love involved?
Also, you probably developed death grip, go slow, and try to edge a lot.
>>18675223
I've never had sex with someone I've had feelings for
>>18675282
That might be your problem. Try to see if you have death grip first, by going no-fap for a while, and when you do fap, try to edge with as little interaction (can't find another word for that) as possible
>>18675285
Yeah yesterday I told the girl to go faster during oral, that it felt better. So what the other guy said about going fast might be true
>>18675287
So you need to go slower when you fap. Not many girls would be able to put up with the super high speed you get when you fap, without you getting rough.
>>18675294
So you think if I abstained from masturbation for a really long time and did it with a girl I actually liked I'd be able to cum?
>>18675298
Probably. You don't need to really stop it, but try to stay like 2 weeks or a month without touching it, and then fap (of course, without porn) very slowly with the minimum of pressure, I like using two fingers, with my index on the frenulum and my thumb on the other side. Keep doing this until you regain some sensitivity.
Also, I know you've heard it a lot but apparently sex with your loved one is way better, you really should try it. (not necessarily the act of fucking, but as a whole it's usually better)