Okay, male anons. My boyfriend and I have been going on for

>>18671428
>Is this normal? Is there a reason for this?

My friend, understand that people are different. We, unknown strangers on the internet, do not have the answer for "why your boyfriend's sex drive is so patchy", since every person and situation is different.

What I can tell you for sure tho is: talk to him. If it's bothering you, you should let him know. In a gentle, kind manner (men have very fragile egos).

I'm sure you guys are gonna work that out.

>>18671428

Sounds normal to me. While not everyone is the same it's like that for me. Sometimes he may just not be in the mood, sometimes you just simply have no interest in sex. I see nothing to worry about.

>>18671428
>normal
No.
>reason
I would say he is on some meducation. Or is bipolar.
>what do i do
Make him confess what is his problem.

Being healthy boy means your libido is like hunger. So we can have sex at least once per day with 0 issues. But when you are on ssri, have depression or some other girl sucks you dry, it is entirelly different story.

Also refusing to cuddle your lady in need is in my humble opinion very rude and anti gentleman like.

>>18671428
Just dump him and find a real man.

>>18671439
>(men have very fragile egos).

kek
I love these whole-gender facts

OP talk to him about it. Maybe he's in a depression, maybe he's a bi / asexual or maybe he's simply not in the fucking mood. Nothing wrong with that.

And no, this does not indicate that he's cheating. Even if he was then there's no reason to fuck with you as well you know.

>>18671428
With a nod to >>18671428, yes, strangers can't give you answers without you providing a bit of detail. But I've seen some great /adv/ here over the years and we (the strangers) do care about giving good answers.

Your problem sounds more like an intimacy problem than a sex problem. You hit a wall when you suggest being close, or even hint at it. He's putting a lot of energy into protecting himself against what you need. The odds are that his sex bits work just fine, and that with a random woman he doesn't really know he'd perform fine, but her I think his relationship bits are battling.

If that sounds possible, you want to look at what could make him frightened to open up to you. Guilt is one obvious thing. Not necessarily unfaithfulness guilt, perhaps he has lied to you about himself ... whatever.