Any general tips on finding someone to fall in love with at university?

>>18671166
>Starting to think that maybe I won't find a lot of cute and thoughtful women at a lot parties.
By this I mean those who are probably more reserved, quiet, and maybe even shy.
I'm sure actually that there'd be cute, thoughtful, and interesting women at parties, but you know what I mean.

you are a virgin aren't you, how short are you?

>>18671166
Just live your life. Make friends if you want and naturally it will happen or way or another. The thing is that you overthinking about it will raise your expectations too much and probably will never reach that high. The best things in life are the simple ones.

Welcome to the adult world. A loving gf will not magically appear in front of you. Forget about looking for girls and instead focus on becoming a better and more desirable man. Right now you sound like an insecure child, and nobody finds that attractive.

Love doesn't exist save yourself the trouble

>>18671239
Sure it does. It's not a mental phenomenon, no, that's obsession in the mind.

The heart has an electromagnetic field many times more powerful than the brain's, and the heart's also made of ~65% neural cells

I feel fuzzies in my heart when I'm being compassionate, I wouldn't call it love but it feels great

>>18671256
Of course I think the heart doesn't distinguish, but accepts

It's a great feeling

>>18671256
Not trying to be mean but it honestly doesn't exist just save yourself the trouble

>>18671267
What is true love but unconditional?

True love accepts faults

>>18671269
Best of luck

my advice is make a lot of friends and eventually you'll find the one
My first college gf I met about a month into the school year from a friend of a friend, and we didn't date until months after hanging out for a long time
If you go into any social situation thinking "I am here to meet someone to date" you will most likely fail and also miss out on making strong platonic relationships as well