I don't know what to do anymore. She just stopped texting and talking and all of that all of a sudden. Hell, she rather tell random people about her family problems than me who's known her for four years. Hell, with the post of "hmu, I want people to talk to". I don't know what I did wrong, but what used to be there doesn't seem to be there anymore. And with the fact of having to see her everyday at school bothers me now. I have no idea what happened, now her group of random people could be laughing with her at what used to be there. I just don't know anymore. Any insight or advice to combat this and just forget? Because it's had me pretty fucked since I space out sometimes and painfully remember. Yea, I've tried to do shit with friends, but it only works for a little.
>>18670441
>women problems
lol, this is why i have a trap girlfriend(male)
>>18670441
If you've tried talking to her about it and asking why she's ghosted you, there isn't much else to do.
If she doesn't value you as a friend or whatever you two were, than she isn't worth anything to you.
It's a tough realization, but you have to forget.
Literally stop think about her, remove any reminder of her, and if you think about her, punish yourself in some way by doing 10 push-ups or pinch yourself, something to associate a negative response to her.
If she tries talking to you, don't give in to anything. If she wants to talk, she'll have to prove it herself.
>>18670455
>n-no homo r-right?
"She's not your girl, it's just your turn."
Ignore her bitch ass and stop trying to talk to her.
Move on and stop being a faggot.
Obsessing over her gives her all the power.
/thread
>>18670456
I've tried asking her, but it's pure bullshit. Like "I don't want to talk about it" or "It's not you". Before this happened, she used to be really open about everything, but now it's just radio silence.
>>18670467
Then that's it. Make yourself not need her.
Focus of yourself and finding happiness in only yourself.
Bitches love happiness
>>18670459
I really don't care what you call it. She(male) cooks me warm meals, shares a lot of my hobbies with the same enthusiasm, and is the most loving person I have ever been with.
>got sick with the flu last year
>stayed at home since i had the shakes bad for a few days
>cooked me chicken soup, read stories, gave constant attention to my health and cuddled with me while fussing over the state of my pillows the entire time
No other girl I've been with has ever given me that level of care.
>>18670464
yea, that's what I have been doing ever since I asked her why and got "I don't want to talk about it" and "It's not you" And occasionally she just pops in and that the thought of knowing that years of fucking conversations and trust is just gone in a snap. I just want to know what happened.
>>18670475
well, that's good, you got someone who cares.
>>18670473
yea, but i just need ideas and shit to do to forget about her