my husband has a coworker who always sends him creepshots and

I'm going to give you the best advice anybody will ever give you about this.

Talk to the people in your life that are affecting you, not the internet. Tell him that it disturbs you and you think it's sick and rather than trying to boss him around as in "stop it or else!" Just tell him "the more of that shit you show me, and the more that I know you're looking at it, it makes me lose respect for you and that makes me sad.

>>18669322
He raped that woman. She was asleep. Your husband watches rape videos of women being objectified. You think this is okay? Really?

>>18669333
Pretty sure OP meant that he recorded her while she was sleeping, not that he was fucking her while she was asleep.

Also OP. Yes he shows you because he feels uneasy and he gives you an opening to tell him you're uncomfortable with it, and/or he alleviates his guilt by expressly making you complicit.

Worry less that he sent your man this video than about your husband having no issues being friends with a sex offender. It wasn't "her own fault for sleeping with such a douchebag", people can have wildly different sides and anyone can be unpleasantly surprised. Even then being naive is not comparable to abusing someone's good faith in you and spreading the footage to top it all off. It could ruin her life if that shit leaked and he doesn't care.

If he wasn't sending your husband videos of women like this he would probably be sending him regular porn - or some other friend would. Other women exist and he will have friends who live it up and have one night stands, that's just a fact of life. I think your priorities are way off here honestly.

>>18669333
That's not rape. This dumb cunt pasee put after fucking a stranger. It's shity he took pictures deffanitly not right, but it's not rape. This is why people should behave like whores, you will be taken advantage off and it's mainly your own fault.

>>18669322
he's trusting you and you're doubting him.

>>18669343
Yeah your right i skimmed it and didnt really read it properly.
Still recording someone whos unaware is creepy and not to far a jump from rape imo. Its still violating the poor woman. She didnt consent to being recorded naked or her private parts exposed to tom,dick and harry its horrible.

>>18669333
nah, he made the vid after he fucked her and she was sleeping next to him.

>>18669343
i told him that this is rather illegal and he could get in troubles for that. i even told him (not in a very serious tone) that he should report him, to which he replied that the girl could report him if she wanted to. but she doesn't even know that vid exists, so yeah...

you're right, my issue is probably that he sees no real problem with what this guy does.
he even "jokingly" said that he has made such vids from me, too. he quickly added that he wouldn't do that, but i'm REALLY not sure about that anymore.

ofc he's a douche, but he's a douche all around. if you sleep with guys like that then you're basically asking for stuff like this to happen.

my husband watches a lot of porn and that's no problem. this is just a tad too close to home for my liking. it makes me fearthat he suddenly thinks he could go out and get himself some piece of THAT cake, too. which he could... i just hope he doesn't, and so far i trusted him completely, but him being ok with things like that made me realize that he has sides to himself i obviously have no clue about.

>>18669363
>She didnt consent to being recorded naked or her private parts exposed to tom,dick and harry its horrible.
I agree entirely and if her face or remarkable visible tattoos show, it could wind up haunting her for the rest of her life if someone decides to put it online for shits and giggles.

>>18669375
she had a big and recognizeable tattoo on her back, so yeah, it was definitely not ok.
she was laying face down, i doubt he would have had the decency to not include her face if she would have been laying differently.
plus my husband is definitely not the only one who received that vid.

Since when did 4chan turn into reddit, holy cringe. There's nothing wrong with treating sluts like sluts, maybe don't sleep with random strangers if you're concerned with nudes getting leaked.

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>>18669373
I think you're perfectly reasonable about wanting your husband to not associate with such an asshole like that, and that he definitely shouldn't be showing you those videos. But I think you're being unreasonable about your fears of this being the catalyst for him to begin cheating.

>>18669384
do you lack basic reading comprehension?

>>18669385
probably, yes.
so why do i feel that way then and how do i stop?

>>18669391
I was replying to this >>18669333
mongoloid

>>18669355
>>18669355
this

>>18669394
You should tell him that you think it's very inappropriate and that it makes you feel uncomfortable. You should further stress that you're not going to interfere with his friendships, but that you do not like this guy or what he's about. Someone who actually cares about you should be willing to work to some sort of solution.

>>18669333
Some would argue being in a relationship is rape too

>>18669322
>but him spreading her nudes is really disrespectful.

Actually what he's doing is illegal.

>>18669322
My ex use to send me pretty goary stuff too like Dogg's smashing woman and bloody pussies not sure why I didn't think any of it and I even share them with my coworkers. I even came across an storie App with sister on sister action, incest and so on you get the idea. Not sure why I read or dismissed all of that probably because it was all new to me. I also came across a camera pen USB he had bought that for some reason I was snopping around and I found a clip in it that showed what seemed he had video taped his female coworkers in the restroom anyways There's alot more that I can share. He also visited similar sites likes these except that they showed probably more graphic content. I probably compared them to imagines I saw when I first visited 4chad. Not sure if anyone experienced the same as me like suicide pics etc.. Anyways, He killed himself about 2 years ago and I am constantly thinking I'm being blamed for his death someone is trying to get retaliation or possibly set up to think so I'm sick of it thou!

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>>18669322
Your husband shows you that because he trusts you and hopes you trust him back, he has nothing to hide and it is not his fault that douche is the way he is.