>be me >19 >found a qt3.14 gf >we kissed in my apartment

Are you a virgin as well? Just keep doing what you did, getting further each time.

>>18668774
Yep, still got my V card. I'll try tit grabbing next time. Do you think that the question about masturbation would be too much or maybe it will make more trust?

>>18668782
Its creppy anyway you look at it

>>18668782
Straightforward question like that, no matter what will always be creepy. Try to ask it in more discreet or playful manner to make it come across her.

And what happened after she refused? Did you just stop it or you kindly comply and still going with making out?

You should aim to be more bold in your actions with her, escalate everytime possible and only back off when she's visibly annoyed/irritated.

>>18668822
Well we continued making out. Next time if she refuses I'll tell something like - come on, I'm not that scary.

>>18668832
Now no need for words, my man. It'll make it sound creepy, unless that's her cup of tea. better to just keep going without saying anything.

>>18668749
she doesn't like to break social conventions - tries to play hard to get
what usually happens in those situations is sex on the 3rd date, not earlier, not later

Nigga, take it slow. You know all those girls who complain about being pressured into sex?

I can tell you people never went fishing. When you get something on the line, you don't just start pulling as hard as you can. REEL them in. You offer some slack, you offer some control, because then THEY COME TO YOU.

Literally just do exactly what you're doing. You're way way WAY more likely to fuck this up by pushing too hard and scaring her off. If you pressure her into sex, you'll be giving her an ultimatum: cave and do what I want, or leave. Neither option will make her happy with her choice in you. Just take the extra week to get her gears going, man.

Just keep having dates that involve kissing and light petting. Do this in locations where sex is possible such as your apartment. Get good at stimulating her. When making out gets to a certain pitch tell her, "let's go to my bedroom". Then lead her into your bedroom and start taking off her clothes. It's pretty simple.

The main thing about having sex with a girl is to allow her to feel safe and secure. You are providing her the safe place to get really horny and to enjoy sex. So basic things like holding her around the waist or around the shoulders will make her feel secure with you.

Everyone gets horny, everyone enjoys sex. Make her feel secure with you, build trust, and she will express her horniess with you.

You probably spooked her by trying to go for the ass/vag too fast then trying to pull her shirt. Next time kiss her neck softly between lip kisses and use your hands on her whole body; the small of her back, her thighs, even her abdomen house erogenous zones that you can stimulate even while she is clothed. Don't rush things, warm her up slowly and let her set the pace, at least the first time. If she pulls away or seems uncomfortable about doing anything, immediately back off. Don't be butthurt. If you're getting this far, she definitely likes you and is attracted but just may need to feel a bit comfortable with you before she goes all the way. Don't rush or pressure her at all or it will evaporate (learned this the hard way).

I love you, anons.