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>met older black girl
>been over 3 years together
>she always is losing her jobs and spending money like nothing
>can't handle it anymore, want to break up
>still, huge chunk of life together, she wants to get married (I'm not ready)
>still genuinely love her
This is a fucking shitshow of a problem. What do I do?
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have u tried tot alk to her about ur concerns?
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>>18666645
Yes. I think she knows that she is fucking up and is trying to appeal to my emotions for me to stay.
The reasons are plain and simple; it's getting through emotionally that is the difficult part
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>>18666637
You may still love her right now but if you move forward and she doesn't make an effort to change her ways you'll come to resent her. Many marriages have been ruined because of finances
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>>18666653
It won't be easy to do. She thinks I'll be her husband for life and I'm fucking terrified of it right now
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If it isn't moving forward, and you've tried, you may have to consider other options for your life. heartbreak is the so hard, but theres no reason to stay in a relationsship you've questioned for too long
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>>18666637
Your hopeless. Enjoy dysfunction. All the red flags were there but you kept going good job.
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