>best friend and boyfriend both live abroad
>they are a couple of hours apart by train
>best friend says that she'll go see my boyfriend sometimes next month
>says she wants to stay over for the weekend and visit the town where he lives
I feel really uncomfortable with them being alone together for days and sleeping in the same bed.
Should I tell him to either invite her a weekend when I'm also in town, or not invite her at all? Would I come off as crazy jealous?
Boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. They get along well.
>>18665634
Your friend is fucking your bf. it's shady as fuck that they want to spend time together without you, especially over night. They are more then likely already messing around
>>18665643
It was my friend's idea. My boyfriend hasn't invited her or expressed any desire to be with her.
They haven't seen each other since my boyfriend moved abroad, which was almost 9 months ago. They've been in contact sparsely, mostly for things related to me and in a group chat we have together.
Depends on your bf's personality. After 4 years I hope you would know whether he's the cheating type. Also you demanding to be there isn't going to help. If they want to bang they'll reschedule and won't mention it to you.
>>18665650
If you haven't seen each other for 9 months he's absolutely been fucking other women already.
Just let it happen and get your own side piece.
>>18665668
He's not the cheating type. He's very loyal.
I'm not even especially concerned about cheating, I don't think they're going to bang. I don't think they even like each other physically.
I am just uncomfortable and a little envious. Especially since we don't spend a lot of time together due to distance, I just really feel bad that they're going to spend so much time together while I am so far away.
>>18665634
You're not crazy jealous, and I'm 99% sure your boyfriend will understand.
This isn't unreasonable at all.
>>18665674
>If you haven't seen each other for 9 months he's absolutely been fucking other women already
Not OP, but that's pretty pathetic if you can't keep your dick in your pants for 9 months while being away from your gf
>>18665674
They haven't seen each other in 9 months, I see him every other weekend. We usually fly to each other once a month, and we spent 10 days travelling together this summer on top of the usual visits.
>>18665678
Thanks. I didn't know if I was exaggerating.
>>18665675
If you think it will develop into a real relationship issue, work with your boyfriend to.make him understand and resolve it before it happens.
If your feelings aren't that strong just let them hang out.