>gf "breaks up" with me after especially bad fights
>for example says "bye" when hanging up and then "that was bye forever, by the way. I can't take this anymore" etc
>know it's at least partially a reaction test, but it's true that this relationship is a really unstable one, full of problems but we both love each other
>afraid that one day she'll mean it, and I'll ignore it like the girl who cried wolf
How can I know? It's just as bad to take it seriously every time, because it becomes a subconscious way to bait me and make me beg and crawl
>>18664814
Next time say "Alright then" and ghost her until she can be actually bothers to contact you. Stop being a lap dog that just crawls back all the time.
>>18664821
That's what I've been doing, and yeah she always comes back. But I'm still scared I'll ignore it when it actually matters
>>18664827
It won't ever matter. She's an attention seeker. Since she does come back, ignore the first few attempts. Make her work for it for once.
>>18664814
The sooner you can get rid of her the better. Find someone who doesn't play games.