Is it possible to find a non-abusive, loyal, faithful, passionate

>>18664235
yes it is

most people lose their friends when they get a serious gf so I wouldn't worry about that.

if you find osmeone you want to build a life with and they want to build a life with you... you'll have what you want.


if you want someone to "date" while you both go on about your business.... it won't last

>>18664235
Yes.

>What if you're a loser with no friends
No. Sorry but positive, lovely girls usually have strong and positive family/friends network and expect their partners to have that too. It's like expecting a cardio bunny to date a fatass who never moves and eats junk food. It doesn't go together.

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>>18664247
I don't want a "positive, lovely" girl whatever the fuck that is. I want a girlfriend who is also a loser with no friends except me so we can be losers together.

>>18664235
>What if you're a loser with no friends

Hard to meet people that way, mate. And even if online dating pans out, you ned to keep the relationship working. Better to work on your social skills a bit first, don't you think?

>in this day and age?

Don't play that card. If you start in this mindset "Girls today are whores" then girls will probably find you constant scrutinizing and testing obnoxious and start ignoring you.

>>18664341
My dude, either you want a passionate girlfriend or a friendless loser girlfriend. Passionate people tend to be more active in life and therefore have a net of friends, colleagues and acquaintances. Unless by passionate you mean "a girl who doesnt nothing but watches anime and masturbates to hentai", in that case you should success.

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>>18664353
By passionate I mean having passion in the relationship, caring a lot about our love or whatever.

I wouldn't mind if she's a low achiever.

>>18664341
i married one of these. we have no friends outside of each other and the dog. we play video games together and share constant depression about how we hate and crave human contact. it's good I guess. they're around. maybe try book stores or even messaging randos on facebook who look lonely

>>18664365
I doubt it; most normal people have friends and if you completely isolate yourself from the society to the point you don't have even one shitty online friend you
>are not a good partner material
>might have serious mental issues preventing you from sustaining and maintaining relationships with other people
So these girls are probably unavailable for a relationship and suffer for example from depression, so they can't be very passionate about the relationship

>>18664365
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>>18664235
These are some cool fucking sinks

>>18664365
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>>18664235
post more sinks

>>18664378
It's easier said than done to get friends if you have deep rooted psychological problems

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>>18664378
I have some online friends and my last girlfriend was online but we split up. I'm capable of being in relationships and being a friend, just not finding relationships and finding friends.

What nobody ever wants to admit: the sweet innocent girl will go for chad before she goes for the overweight inexperienced guy, just like all the other girls.

If you can't beat 'em, join 'em. Start improving your physique and your game. Everyone is going to crybaby about this but crybabying does not change anything.

>>18664394
People with online friends and past girlfriends worry about ever finding a girlfriend?

>>18664391

Yet you expect to have a relationship with a girl with no friends, ignoring how not only you can't met her because you don't meet people, but also ignoring how she will drive you crazy just as you drive her crazy, because neither one of you learned to take part in any sort of social interaction.

>>18664365
This sink wastes a shitload of water by removing the air that modern sinks mix in. Probably belongs to some environmentalist who tours the globe in his private jet while telling the rest of us our carbon footprints are too high.

>>18664394

How's you find those past relationships in the first place, man?

>>18664235
It's difficult, but possible. Just be willing to accept someone who doesn't fit into your ideal.

>>18664391
Of course but If you have deeply rooted psychological problems, you should do your utmost to solve them *before* entering a romantic relationship

>>18664394
>I'm capable of being in relationships and being a friend, just not finding relationships and finding friends.
So you are saying that you won't be able to find a gf anyway...? If so, what's the point of this thread?

>>18664403
I'm not OP. And I would be patient with her. It would be up to her to be able to put up with me.

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>>18664401
Yes, because my last one found me and made me be her bf and I fell deeply in love with her and still am. That will never happen again.

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>>18664415
>So you are saying that you won't be able to find a gf anyway...? If so, what's the point of this thread?
Um for advice on that topic you just said? How to find one

>>18664418
did she break up with you? What happened?

>>18664235
m-me... i'm someone who's like that, at least i think so. honestly, my last relationship ended because he felt like i cared about him more than he cared about me. which is a bummer, because i really did love him a lot. i just want to date someone who loves me as much as i love them.

anyway, we're out there, dude. just gotta be on the hunt. kachow.

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>>18664444
Yes. She's irrelevant she's probably fucking her ex boyfriend right now. She has a bad temper and becomes abusive when she's upset about any little thing and has a history of cheating and infidelity and is overall very untrustworthy so I don't care about her anymore I give up.

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>>18664453
Cool so are you going to be my gf or what

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>>18664462
I guess that's a no

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>>18664453

Actually you sound like you could be a good woman - or on the flipside, expecting too much. "I shower him with gifts and candy and dates and trips to places and he doesn't do the same!"

But maybe he doesn't because he doesn't like those sorts of things. Material crap isn't what he wants, it's companionship. Love instead of structured dates designed to go out and "show everyone how much fun we're having." Because those things aren't important. Having fun is the fun part, not how many people know it.

>>18664235
There's always a chance. However, being a loser with no friends does make your chances smaller. You can always do something about that - context depends on your personal situation. The usual [work out/eat right/get a job/good hygiene] regimen works for most because it helps you have money, not look like or smell like a pig, and promotes good health.

Finding a woman who ascribes to the same kinds of things though... it's a lot of looking. I also think that it's possible to grow and mature into the ideal boyfriend/girlfriend. Most people however aren't willing to compromise, admit fault, or actually do anything about their situations without a serious kick in the ass.

So I'd worry more about taking care of yourself first and then getting with someone later.

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>>18664719
>The usual [work out/eat right/get a job/good hygiene] regimen works for most because it helps you have money, not look like or smell like a pig, and promotes good health
I do work out, I do eat decently though I fail on the weekends but I am slim, I have a very good job, I have good hygiene and plenty of money.

>>18664732

Then you're on the right track at least. Doesn't sound like you're a loser if you do all those things. Friends come and go, they have their own lives to lead.