Is it a good idea to apologize to a girl over messager over being

>>18664191
>It wasn't that bad but it wasn't good either
do you want to fuck her?
then dont apologize
if you are not into girls, then go ahead

>Apologizing
Honestly I've learned that with women it's better to just pretend things like your scenario never happened. They're usually willing to let bygones be bygones if they like you, and bringing it back up again is just going to change their opinion about you for the worse.

>>18664191
What do you mean "embarrassingly high"? Usually if you get super high you just act like a vegetable... If its at a party that shit happens all the time so its not particularly embarrassing. Did she know you were high?

>>18664250
Yeah but it was such a weird party
It was only 4 people and I was the only one high. It was just a bunch of small talk with cake at the end. I got the vibe she was expecting me to do something the whole party but idk because she supposedly has a boyfriend back at uni

I can't flirt when I'm high so i just sat quietly

>>18664354
Nah dont say anything then. Maybe say something quick if you see her in person next but otherwise no

It'd seem to be a situation where an apology is not needed. Say something like my bad, etc, go do Clinton maneuver where you acknowledge bad shit happened, but not taking the balme on your part.