I can't trust my girlfriend at the moment as much as i try..

>>18661750
Also I didn't make it entirely clear that she was cheating on her boyfriend to be with me for 5 months

If she cheats on him, she'll cheat on you

Your girlfriend cheated on her boyfriend with you, and you wonder why you can't trust her? Why the fuck would you expect loyalty from a girl like that? Also you really do deserve to be cheated on since you were such a willing participant in her cheating.

>>18661750
>I just assume she's texting a new me
You assume correctly. She's pretty good at fucking two guys at the same time and keeping one of them in the dark. 5 months. I'm impressed.

>my girlfriend cheated on her ex to be with me
>why can't I trust her guise?
Mochi mochi baito desu.

>>18661750
So you are paranoid a cheater is cheating again?

Well, cheating is one of her challenging behaviors, so you're going to have to accept that, and come up with a support plan to work with that.

I would recommend: 1. Constant, open, and deep communication. You both need to get used to talkin openly about serious shit (feelings, hops, fears, etc), so that when she starts closing off, you know something's going on.
2. Find out what events & situations lead to her cheating, and avoid those. For when those situations are unavoidable, find alternative things that she can do, which can stop those situations from leading to cheating.
3. Reinforce non-cheating behaviors. Cheating, for her, fulfilled one or more needs she had. Find out what those needs are, and make sure you fulfill them yourself, or find a way for them to be fulfilled without cheating.

>>18662642
>Find out what events & situations lead to her cheating
Damn anon you are fucking brilliant. OP will know all the events and situations that lead to her fucking OP for 5 months while she was fucking her bf.