What do I do if I refuse to date and settle down with a slutty

>>18660004
Depends on the luck of the draw but if the stats are to believe you have more than a 50% chance of divorce. There is always the alternative of marrying an illegal/immigrant and getting them their papers.

The real problem IMO is if they carry baggage i.e. kids. If they do then you're basically adding an entire world of problems from the starting gate from discpilining(she'll get furious if you touch him) to dealing with the fathers(which can be someone that will try to intimidate you constantly). I've seen it happen with my aunts and usually the guy left within a couple of years or they became really mean to her.

>>18660010
I can't date a girl from foreign lands because girls are all whores

If I am to marry a girl I need her complete sexual past and as I cannot trust whores (all women) I need references and to talk to unbiased people from their past (must be multiple sources) and to know they're sexual history to make sure they are not lying to capture my seed.

>>18660024
>If I am to marry a girl I need her complete sexual past and as I cannot trust whores (all women)

True but the beauty of the digital age is that background checks are cheap as FUCK. I've done it on girls, 20 bucks a pop is not a bad deal. Plus once you talk to her family you'll get a feel for what type of person she is. One weak spot for women is that they ALWAYS hang on to bulllshit memories in the form of photos. Which are a goldmine to study her past.

Also don't discount the stereotypes. If she moved away for college it implies she's a risk taker(i.e. slut) and even moreso if they did it straight out of college. Did she belong to a sorority? More than likely messed around. Did she do a women's study type degree? Then she's probably indoctrinated already.

Again, it's a minefield that is more or less gonna get you a leg blown off.

Either you improve yourself as much as you can to make the cut for a woman with high standards for who is good enough for her, or you give up and spent your life on other things than love/a family.

Honestly leaning towards the latter here because you sound pretty damaged and you won't ever get that objectively confirmation. Most people do not just talk about the sex life of their friend/family member with a random guy and knowing that you care that much will create animosity towards your relationship.

If you want a trad conservative wife you need to be worth shit yourself. Do you have a decent income and a good body? If not, you don't deserve chaste girls.

>>18660036
Ahh you are a wise man

The only thing I'm worried about with that is finding out if she's done hook ups, been raped, etc as I don't think women keep pictures around of their rapist

Actually it's women they probably literally do

>>18660044
>>18660042
What? Only a slutty girl would care about these things. A pure (ish) girl wouldn't care about all that shit you're literally telling me how to find a slut and I don't like it.

I understand the good body thing but money really? "If you want a non slutty gf just attract her with money" literally shit advice. 0/10

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>>18660004
Unfortunately every year there more and more sexually impure women. It's the direction our society is going because we think hedonism is freedom when its really oppression.

There are still good girls out there, just hard to find. You should be able to get a good idea when you meet a girl and hang out with her a few times what kind of person she is. I would say the biggest tell is the company she keeps, meaning how her friends are and act, because she most likely is the exact same when your not around.

>>18660051
>Only a slutty girl would care about these things.
No man. A slutty girl will fuck a guy who looks cute to her, and date someone either because of feelings or for status/perks.
A girl who is very picky with who she dates and sleeps with, to the point where she has a lot less experience than her peers and a lot less than she could've had based on her appeal, is going to have high standards all around the board. If a woman is the type who throws herself at any guy giving her attention then she won't be inexperienced for long.

>>18660058
There's a difference between girls waiting around for a gold mine and girls looking for love

>>18660055
I'm trying man Ive come to the conclusion that every girl has had sex around 14 years old, had a train ran on them at least once, raped (that's a given), and has had multiple hook ups almost habitually since the age 14-15

I think the average girl around 22 will have been raped and had about 30 sexual partners

>>18660051
> Only a slutty girl would care about these things.

Sure. Your pure trad wife isn't gonna care about you making a decent living because she can be a housewife and feed her children with thin air and good wishes.

are YOU enough of a man for the sort of girls you expect?

You guys realize that millennials are having lower partner counts and less casual sex, right?
>See: the 1970s
Look it up.
Stop basing your views of reality on porn and 80s teen comedies. It's making you miserable.

>>18660042
>the improve yourself meme

Listen, if you have to do that much to get a woman then chances are the relationship will be founded on nothing more than material interest. Women have the capacity to love any man so long as the man piques her interest. Which is why serial killers with life long sentences still have hordes of women professing their love to them. You honestly sound like a woman yourself by the way you deflect the question back onto the OP in which case I suggest you be a little less biased.

>>18660065
>There's a difference between girls waiting around for a gold mine and girls looking for love
The thing is that as a girl, if you are average or above average looking than simply "looking for love" means that you are dating someone within months. And after that relationship ended someone else will come offering you love.

You are thinking of a male virgin in a female body but there is no such thing. Older virginal women either have issues with sex/intimacy that caused them to avoid it entirely, or they actually value themselves a lot (which doesn't exclude insecurity, they can actually go hand in hand quite often) and do not want to settle for a mediocre relationship or empty thrills.

For the record, I used to be one and so are and were several of my friends. This is not talking assumptions but lived reality.

>>18660067
LMAO

>not knowing these statistics are made up by the government

>>18660076
I literally said I don't care if they're a virgin

>>18660074
Your post implies that improving yourself must mean making more money. While it can be securing a job as much as learning how to tell a good story, when to ask if everything is okay and when to back off, how to flirt boldly or strike up conversation more naturally.

>so long as the man piques her interest
And her interest is more easily piqued by a man who has things going for him (be it money, looks or a disarming charm) than by an average Joe.

Serial killers get much more interest than mundane men because to some twisted minds their acts are hyper masculine and show them to be exceptional. Plus as the lover of a serial killer some of the "glamor" of that dramatic situation and the press rubs off. And a lot of women love to fantasize about saving a man and seeing the good in him that no one else did.
Aka it has its own logic that again boils down to those men having something to offer.

>>18660083
Virgins and women who do all they can to keep their number low are the same in this regard. It is about what standards you set for intimacy and relationships. If you want to impress a woman who is hardly ever so taken with a man that she wants to start something, then you're going to need more to bring to the table than a woman who'll give anyone who looks at her twice the time of day.

Varg has the answer:

https://youtu.be/kDqQCjkuxuo

>>18660065
>I think the average girl around 22 will have been raped and had about 30 sexual partners

I will say that you should keep you standards and don't bend it for any girl. If it's important to you that she has a low number then let that be a priority because it says a lot about a person who has self control.

I'm an attractive guy in my mid-20's and i've kept my number purposefully really low. I think it's hypocritical if a guy has slept with 50 women and he's looking for a virgin.

>>18660004
based on your posts you sound like you have spent way too much time on /r9k/ and haven't gone outside in awhile. for some reason /r9k/ has this idea that all the women in the world (half the human population) fit into this narrow demographic of sorority girls who account for just a small percentage of people on earth.

>>18660111

Male virginity isn't comparable to female virginity. Woman have had to be very selective about who they have sex with because they carry the burden of pregnancy and breast feeding for many years. A man does not.

>>18660126
That is one perspective in which it isn't comparable. If you look at the human hormones and feelings of lust and desire and how much our society makes sex seem like the best and biggest thing ever, then it is totally comparable. And from that perspective it is hypocritical because you are expecting a level of self sacrifice and restraint that you don't ask of yourself.

>>18660118
No I used to have a way to talk to chicks (just online) and 99% of them from the west were sluts

Also the first 2 girls I officially dated were fucking disgusting. One actually fucked 100 dudes after we stopped dating and she would always tell gross sex stories and every girl I talk to is a partying slut that talks to 800 dudes

But I live in a poor white trash hell hole

>>18660126
see >>18660139

>>18660118

That's not even the real issue here. If a man wants a "traditional" "pure" woman/wife, that's fair enough. Those are his values, despite what modern society and feminism has to say about it.

But what really makes me laugh is when you get guys who complain about sluts and not being able to find decent women, and so you ask them "well, do you have the qualities a traditional, pure woman would want? Can you provide? do you excell above others? are you strong and healthy? do you embody traditional masculine qualities?"

...but they're nearly all just man-children who think they can watch anime and live with thier parents and that's enough.

>>18660140
what site? what demographic? the way that you even communicated could have just attracted that certain type of girl
>But I live in a poor white trash hell hole
wew that explains a lot

>>18660151
They were mostly girls from small towns that's the only demographic

I thought my ex was pure. Turns out she had self esteem issues because of her body and as soon as she lost enough weight for other guys to notice her, she dumped me asap. She recently cheated with her new guy with his best friend and I'm sure she'll be in the double digits of dicks taken by the end of the year. Good luck in your search for the elusive pure girl, OP.

>>18660245
lol so the only way to find a good girl is one that's so fat she can't attract a mate Jesus Christ