There has to be more to life than trying to be the best you can be and still living in someones shadow right? I feel like ive hit rock bottom and people keep telling me how to not be a loser (working out, getting girls, blah blah blah) but does anyone else feel like it's all in vain? I mean people already see me as a loser, so what's the point in working that hard to achieve what everyone else has achieved. I want to make my own path and inspire people to follow, not follow someone else's footsteps. I thought that was the point of "just bee urself"
>>18658263
Yes.
Youve already defeated yourself; youve created a negative feedback loop where you set your standards based on others limits over your own and judge yourself by them thereby invalidating any past or future efforts.
I was in this rut and I got out by realizing yes I am just a zergling, but the battle is not won without critical mass of zerglings so yes each and every ling matters.