Friend tells me he wouldn't have sex with somone he doesn't have feelings for. We slept together but I see it as him lying since he's with somone else and I feel shitty for what I did. Especially since I have feelings for this guy.As gay as this sounds what's it like having mutual love sex?
>>18658135
Of course he lied. What other way is there to see it?
Are you looking for someone to blame to feel less guilty about this? You didn't respond when I asked if you knew he was in a relationship before, I'm guessing that's a yes since you're hiding information and you feel "Shitty".
Why are you still hung up on this faggot? What more is there to talk about? Do you just want to know whether or not he "loved" you when you fucked him? Probably not. Romantic love is just a chemical which compels us to breed. Having "Mutual love sex" physically feels no different than regular sex, but if you've convinced yourself that you love this person. It whatever you make of it. It can be erotic, intense, passionate, wonderful. It can feel like you've finally made a connection to someone who understands you enough that they accept you and trust you with being with them in their most intimate state.
>>18658292
>It's*
God damn fucking typos Jesus fuck
>>18658135
The sex is much the same, though you may find yourself trying harder to give pleasure. The before and after are a lot nicer.
It's wholesome and loving and beautiful. You feel completely accepted and warm.
>>18658135
>what's it like having mutual love sex?
I don't know what it would be like for you, but I'm male, sexual, and have been in love. For me, every time we had sex was incredible, even if one of us wasn't physically contributing (usually this didn't happen, cause we both loved fucking). As far as what I was feeling, it was like even a passionate kiss would give me butterflies. If you're asking what to look for to see if he loves you...look into his eyes, listen to him, observe the way he treats you. If he's that much into you his pupils will dilate whenever he looks at you, he will make the effort to give you what you like, and he might seem like he can't control himself when he's with you
If you had sex with him knowing he was cheating, then you're just as reprehensible as him. People like you should be sterilized.
>>18658292
>Having "Mutual love sex" physically feels no different than regular sex
Not really, since sexual enjoyment is as mental as it is physical, and apprehension or anxiety can change the physical perception of sex. Context always changes how sex feels for me at least.
I mean sex is all about the release of dopamine, so context works as a modifier for the release of dopamine through other routes that can compound on the pure physical act of sex.