>Want to do things for people
>Help them out/give them money/listen and give advice/etc
>Always feel like I'm just being taken advantage of
Am I doomed to just feel that way or feel bad from not giving anyone anything?
>>18655603
Your a giver. But not a disciplined one. Also it sounds like you have no sense of identity.
>>18655603
i had the same problem as you up until recently. my best advice is: learn to say no. just start saying no to people and it'll progressively get easier.
once you're more comfortable, then you can start being selective.