I don't feel very uncomfortable about rejecting guys who just want sex with me or who are only slightly romantically interested in me, but when it comes to rejecting a guy who has a huge crush on me or something like that, I feel extremely uncomfortable, choked-up and repulsed on a certain level. Is this normal or is it indicative of issues on a deeper level? Does anyone else feel this?
>>18654915
It means you're a good person and the rare girl capable of empathy, who doesn't want to hurt people who don't deserve it, you recognize their good intentions compared to people who just want to fuck you
That being said, it's better to tell them straight up you're not interested, it will hurt them more if they are strung along or left to wonder how you feel