so. ex-roommate. we hooked up a lot while she stayed with me for ~8 months but also lots of drama. left 2 months ago because my folks were visiting and said she was seeing other people. i'm like fine, whatever.
but the problem is, she has left a bunch of her stuff in storage. now, she had put them there for a good 2 years since we were friends before that. I've been contacting her for the last 2 months about her schedule, when she will get back to school so that I can move all her shit away. I've been wanting to do this for a shit-long time because MY own stuff is now clogging the living room which I want to fix up. Not only that, i found out yesterday there's been rats this summer chewing at her stuff because there was food left there.
i understand she might be ignoring me because she is seeing someone else but holy shit does it piss me off that I have to clean up after her mess? Her personality, despite being a med student, is just completely not on-the-ball and borderline irresponsible also.
should i just throw all her shit away? or COD the HEAVY shit she has all the way back to korea and have her parents pay for it?
>>18654538
Have a record of you texting/emailing her to show proof if needed. Give her a final warning. If no response after a bit, throw out.
>>18654538
Do this >>18654544 but allow a month while trying to contact her by other means e.g. facebook messenger.
>>18654544
>>18654552
im thinking of getting ahold of her student affairs office first but i dont really want to get involved with the school. i feel like i should but its just a strange prospect having to chase down someone and get school staff involved.
knowing myself i'll have a hard time throwing her stuff away since i'm actually pretty responsible and wouldn't just do that to someone even though i should
i think she went back to school this week. how much longer should i give her?