How do I know if I'm loving her in a healthy way, or if

>>18654514
I'm in the same boat, about to start distancing myself emotionally. Mainly yo screw with her head.

>>18654514
You can't always tell. Or atleast I couldn't the first time. Sometimes it's obvious but it isn't always.
If she brings genuine joy into your life, and not just casual happiness that your could get from anywhere else or in some different form then there's a good chance it's the real deal.
If not, then it isn't necessarily that you're attached and holding onto something that isn't really about love, but it could be.

>>18654530
Edgy

>>18654514
Only time, OP. Seriously. It's the only thing that reveals the truth about any relationship.

>>18654563
How long until you know for sure?