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Okay guys, I am 24 years old and have almost zero sex drive (no real drive to do other stuff too to be honest). I had a gf for 2 years and we broke up in november. After that I had a few girls which I had sex with but the one I'm dating right now I have some trouble getting a full erection. Usually my erection is only 60%-70% of what it should be even though I like this girl and I think I'm attracted to her (I don't really know anymore because of no sex drive). Anyway I like her better than some of the other girls I had sex with and I had no trouble getting a full erection with them.
Usually when she stops jerking me off my dick goes right back to flaccid and I usually just rush to an orgasm because I know my dick won't last long. I can't even get hard if she doesn't touch my dick, only when it's the first time in like a week or something but even then my dick doesn't go full 100% erection.
I never really had this problem with my gf for 2 years and I was legit horny especially in the beginning of our relationship.
I don't know what's wrong with me. Hoping you guys can help me. Ask me anything that might be related to my problem and I'll answer.
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Are you overweight or fit?
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>>18654149
180lbs/80kg at 6'2" so not overweight but I don't really exercise that often either
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>>18654149
>>18654157
I lost 10kg in the time after I left my gf by the way
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Sorry, was gone with some work for a bit.
Losing weight cause you left your girl doesn't mean it was healthy weight loss. Being unhealthy can really hurt your sex drive, and in turn, your ability to become erect. I would recommend trying out a simple workout plan. Maybe a thrice weekly jog for a mile or two at first. Just some cardio to help with blood flow.
If that still doesn't work, you might just want to talk with a doctor about erectile dysfunction.
If you have no drive to have sex, but still want to have sex (sounds like drive to me), then you could always just try some testosterone pills. I'm not huge on thinking that a pill can fix your problems, but maybe it would help?
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>>18654308
>cardio
Yeah I'll renew my gym membership and start working out again. Might have been eating a little shitty lately too so hopefully changing my diet up a bit makes me feel better.
>If you have no drive to have sex, but still want to have sex (sounds like drive to me)
Well usually I would get super horny if I didnt have sex for a couple of days but that just doesn't happen anymore. I fuck this girl because she makes it very clear that she wants to fuck and the first time is fine (even though I don't get super erect and I'm not as into it as I should be) but after that I'm done and cant/dont want to go for another round.
I just hate that I can't enjoy sex as much as I used to do.
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>>18654409
Do you watch a lot of porn and jack it highly frequently? Excessive porn can also mess with your sex drive pretty hardcore.
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>>18654416
Not too frequently, like 1-2x a week but yes the last few months I just jerked off as quick as possible to some porn to get back to the game I was playing at that time.
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depression and sadness are also reasons for loss of sex drive, not saying you have depression! but even being depressed for a bit could bunker your sex drive (knowing by experience). whether it'd be life stresses or certain voids in you life.
>>18654409 has a very good point, doing some cardio (at whatever pace comfortable) can help you out.
if you still have problems, you may want to talk to a doctor, you may or may not be going through chemical imbalances.
hope this help, duders, good luck.
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>>18654433
Thanks bro Ill definately try the stuff posted in this thread. Hoping ill get this shit sorted soon
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