What's the best way to break up with someone? I'm in an LDR and I've realized that this relationship isn't right for me. I've never broken up with someone before. Should I wait until the next time they come down or should I go to them?
I don't want to do it over text because that would be fucked up. But we already don't talk on the phone or anything so it'd be weird of me to call out of the blue.
>>18651729
> long distance relationship
Being in a long distance relationship is not a relationship at all. It's a funny joke that young people don't realize they are the butt of.
Dude you're not even in a relationship at all.
>>18651850
Ok cool. But how do I tell the other person that I want to end it?
Don't waste your time driving there and don't waste hers by making her drive to you.
Just send a text, "Hey we need to talk."
Do the actual break up over the phone.
>>18651907
Thanks. is there anyway I can word things to make it less painful?
>>18651973
Straight to the point is best. Ask her if she's okay; if she would like an explanation. Don't fall into the trap of "we'll maybe we can fix this" after explaining and she rebuts.
Also be prepared that maybe she wanted to break up for a while too and barely cares. Or maybe she has cheated or something.
Good luck!